well said Devlyn,
As we have all our own demons to fight, so many have gained strength from me not being what others expected. coming to a support to be judged more or less rather than supported for who and where I am in my battles with those demons does seem like one of those drills when i run to the fire not from it. every day my needs, desires, lusts, change based mostly on that day sometimes even tomorrow, I am dynamic I am woman
Jerri