Poll for out MtFs: Have you successfully dated post-transition?

[ZoeM]

I've had really good luck with dating so far. I met Chris a week or so before going full time and we tentatively started going out. I told him right after our first kiss, and he was completely accepting. Ever since things have gone wonderfully - we've gone on vacations together and recently started expanding our respective (kinda limited) friend pools. What I am has never mattered to him - he's always seen me as who I am, and I love him for it.
He's also, amazingly, accepting of my politics (he stubbornly refuses to get involved in any politics whatsoever) and tolerant of my religious beliefs.

So I feel like I'm not the best example maybe - from a thread like this you kinda expect something more than 'yeah, we have a perfectly normal relationship'. But looking at the poll, that might be the rule, not the exception. *thinks*

[Joanna Dark]

So I feel like I'm not the best example maybe - from a thread like this you kinda expect something more than 'yeah, we have a perfectly normal relationship'. But looking at the poll, that might be the rule, not the exception. *thinks*

No one has a normal relationship: straight, trans, gay bi, queer, gender queer, ACEs, and even--cats. I saw these two cats the other day....i'll shut up now. But...ok...ill shut up. Seriously, normal doesnt exist. There's only people and they are just people.

[Teela Renee]

if by normal you mean, a pre-op and post-op gamer girl  co existing in a peaceful relationship. Yea. but that isnt what most consider normal.

[Joanna Dark]

if by normal you mean, a pre-op and post-op gamer girl  co existing in a peaceful relationship. Yea. but that isnt what most consider normal.

I got seven symbols for those people: ƒ- õƒƒ. They prolly also bang barn animals. It's always the loud-mouthed ones. Do you think it's normal for a trans girl who is ina now FWB situation to let her best friend suck on her boobs while she washes his penis? Oh wait, that does sound normal. Sorry. Yeah you're weird. Just kidding fo realz. i'm just keepin' it a hunted.





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[Teela Renee]

I got seven symbols for those people: ƒ- õƒƒ. They prolly also bang barn animals. It's always the loud-mouthed ones. Do you think it's normal for a trans girl who is ina now FWB situation to let her best friend suck on her boobs while she washes his penis? Oh wait, that does sound normal. Sorry. Yeah you're weird. Just kidding fo realz. i'm just keepin' it a hunted.

I'm officially confused.

[Joanna Dark]

I was guess I was too obscure. Who cares what people think and forget them. The peopel who yell the loudest are always overcompensating and are prolly the weirdest of all. The other part about me washing my friends peins was a joke, though I actually did to that yesterday. He's disabled and can't use his left arm. I don't think that's weird. And he sucked on my boobs, cause, well, they're nice and people do that a lot. This girl I dated years ago pre-HRT used to love to do it. She never met someone like me, a woman a penis. I'm intersexed. I started growing boobs when I was 10-11. Real ones. I was skinny as heck and small and slender to boot. Most women would only have lesbian sex with me. Now i'm on a huge tangent.

My point is Eff anyone who thinks something isnt normal. But where Im from people are mostly accepting.

[V M]

Hi friends 

The question at hand is "Have you successfully dated post-transition?"

No-one is asking for an explicit description of your sex life

Let's keep it clean, watch the language and stay on topic

Thank you

V M

[Janae]

That sounds awesome jane. I know I came close to marrying a CFO last year but called it off two months before the big day. Was marrying him for all the wrong financial reasons. We def can find love like other people. I will admit like any other woman can be very tough

Thanks!!!

Wow that sounded pretty deep, I'm glad you made the right choice in the end. I'm sure you saved yourself a lot of trouble too.

I think it's important that girls hear these things, love can be found no matter where we are in our transitions.

[suzifrommd]

I want to thank everyone for the wonderful responses. I found this amazingly heartening after being rejected unceremoniously after what seemed like a great first date and wondering whether the wrinkle was my gender identity. It's nice to see that nearly 90% of those who tried dating post-transition found some success.

Gives me hope to keep going.

[spooky]

i am currently involved in a relationship with a wonderful guy who is better than anything i could have ever imagined. 

[missy1992]

i am currently involved in a relationship with a wonderful guy who is better than anything i could have ever imagined. 

Thats so great! <3 Mind sharing more?