Sexual Preference

[Michelle69]

Michelle : OK, that sounds a lot better than anything I've experienced so far. (Which is fine, really - I'm married!)

No longer being married, I don't gotta to be a good girl.

Still won't be with a guy, or anyone for that matter till I'm done transitioning, I don't think. I wouldn't mind a few more experiences like that though.

[Androgynous_Machine]

No longer being married, I don't gotta to be a good girl.

Still won't be with a guy, or anyone for that matter till I'm done transitioning, I don't think. I wouldn't mind a few more experiences like that though.

More or less my sentiment.  I've gotta fix me before I can worry about someone else.


-AM

[Danielle Sherry]

Definitely men .. just not gay men.

I'm married now and I love my wife (great woman!) and being fifty years old I've become comfortable with just my fantasizes. If my wife ever passed, or got tired of lesbian sex, I'd finish my transition and look for a good man. Good luck! In this world, fueled by fear and testosterone, I'd most likely win the lottery before finding a good man. I might get a good bump or two before I go. Just something to look forward to    .

[Teela Renee]

Lesbian. Just like the female form and mindframe more.

[Rachel Bellefountaine]

I'm pansexual. I'm attracted to people of all gender identities and tend to be attracted primarily to personalities and presentation rather than bodies or junk. If I like someone and think they're awesome I probably want to have sex with them too, if the feeling is mutual. I'm kind of a slut that way.

Romantically, however, I tend to prefer women (and sometimes genderqueer people) because I can relate for them better on an emotional level than I can to men. And for me that's one of the most important things for me in a long term, non casual, relationship... especially if it could eventually lead to us living together. I am leaving my options open though so if some guy walks into my life and I feel like we connect on a deeper level than that of friends then I'll date him. I'm pretty picky though.

[sam79]

More or less my sentiment.  I've gotta fix me before I can worry about someone else.

+1...

[Mary81]

Before starting hormones I was never really sexually attracted to anyone. After being on HRT for some time, I can say: men 100%. 

[noleen111]

These days I class myself as bi

Before HRT was into woman only... HRT started and I was still into woman.. and I saw myself as a lesbian. Then as HRT time turned into years I found myself looking at men, but not sexually attracted

That all changed when I did a favor for a friends boyfriend.. His friend a guy needed a date to a work function.. so I said fine I will do it. Anyways we hit it off and their was an attraction.. he was fine with my trans... and we started dating.. so here a lesbian had a boyfriend. I enjoyed being the woman in the relationship. I enjoyed kissing him, and being held by him. the relationship developed and we even slept together. We dated for about 9 months before things ended.. I was pre-op the entire relationship.

Now I am post op.. I would like to be someones girlfriend again, maybe a wife someday and now with my vagina I would like to have sex with a man.. but I would not say no to a lesbian either. 

[stephaniec]

I really don't know any more where I'm going sexually . I've always been bi and enjoy being sexual with both. The thing is though that I'm forming a relationship with a woman and she knows I'm transitioning. When I'm in a relationship I just focus on that person. I like being sexual with men, but I'd rather wait till I have the proper equipment. Maybe a solid relationship will develop with my female friend I don't know. The future does exist though . so we'll see what happens.

[Hikari]

I thought I was strange, but this describes my feelings exactly.

That makes me feel better to know I am not the only one who feels like this

I find it interesting how there can be a mismatch in romantic and physical attraction, of course feeling nothing for men physically and being repulsed romantically like I do, isn't nearly as bad as being physically repulsed but romantically attracted and sadly I bet some people out there have those feelings. Makes me wonder why human attraction seems so complicated lol

[myraey]

I would say probably bi. I find women attractive physically. But over the years the thought of women as possible partners has been declining to some degree . And I envy them for what they are. My sexuality has caused me much stress in the past and I am still not fully sure what to make of it. I am very curious about being in a relationship with a man , sexually and otherwise too. I am not a gay male so that does nothing for me. I of course would want to be the girl in that equation. To admit those thoughts has been a process for me. All the transitioning business and everything that comes with it makes it extra difficult to deal additionally with other people.

[sad panda]

So why is everyone so sorta kinda maybe could be into men someday or something?

I mean... you don't have to be if you're not... maybe you just want to like men but if you don't, you can't force yourself to...

Just sayin'

Only saying that because I'm kinda really into men. I mean I love everything about men. I love how they smell, yes I love guy smell. I love their scruffy faces, I love how they're tall and strong, I love how they can have so much confidence like it's natural. I like how they can be dominant and love doting on girls. I (umm secretly) like how they give me more attention than I deserve and treat me like a princess even if I know why they are doing it. Just being honest... Uh, not to say I like every guy (and not to say that guys have to be those things I listed) and ofc a lot of guys are not my type, but then many guys are just really scrumptious... ahh :3

How can you only sort of like those things??? Hahah.... Ignore me, I'm a little cray cray tonight. 

[myraey]

I can only speak for myself. Possibly likeing men has always been an uphill battle for me. I have never really tried to make myself like men in that way. Quite the opposite actually. I have never been against gays nor have I ever been in too many homophobic enviroments. But the thought of me likeing men used almost to repulse me. I have never knowingly been a campy flaming person. This being the mtf section I always have had very male dominated interests and hobbies. But I have gotten asked about being being gay or not. So I do seem to get low hits on some peoples gaydar. Me likeing the guys? No way not me.

[mandonlym]

I prefer men but am also attracted to women, especially butchish masculine women. I guess I'm physically attracted to masculinity, but emotionally attracted to femininity, so the men I date usually need to have a strong, emotional feminine side.

[Alaia]

Where's the 'still confused / not sure' option?

Seriously.