Quote from: Victoria Mitchell on February 27, 2014, 02:26:00 PM
Yeahhhh. Don't date. Too early, luv. Try establishing a life and at least see if you can feel normal 'most' of the time before trying out all the crazy of the dating world.
Yeah, I know you are right. First I have to work on me before I could ever really get involved with someone else. It just sucks being so old and never allowing myself a love life.
Quote from: Pia Bianca on February 28, 2014, 04:36:54 AM
As you don't look clearly male any more that's no surprise to me. You don't fit into the "male world" nor try to but don't look clearly female nor present as one. That's devastating to "appearance". Humans want a clear shot so as long as you don't fit into neither world, you're always appearing strange. You might wonder about how much that might change when you start presenting female and trying to fit in (and thus giving a clear shot).
It's funny but I never felt like I fit into the male world, lol. I don't know, we'll see how it goes, but I've been getting more compliments on my hair from other women which is nice. Though most people are just confused or they give me a big smile that says I know what's going on. It sucks.
Quote from: Marina mtf on February 28, 2014, 04:49:19 AM
Yes, indeed.
the world needs ones and zeroes, M or F.
Staying neutral, it's sound strange, but augment the fear. From my little perspective of
a little Italian town... people, the "normal people" are more kind, secure and understanding
if they see a person who, maybe without too much passing, but it is clearly on a side
and it is clear that, if she does not pass, is not her "fault", but the Testostorene-past.
A person who wants to be bi-gender, fluid, whatever... has more challenges, imho.
Yeah, I think people are taken aback by my appearance. I'm still going out as a boy like this, so I confuse the hell out of people quite often. I'm in gender limbo at this point and don't know what to do. Eh, sooner or later I can go full time.
By the way, I've been in Italy and loved it, but I always hear that there is still prevailing sexism? How do you feel about that? Sometimes I just dream about moving there and starting my life over, but that probably isn't realistic, lol.
