My face has gone from a chubby/fat male face to oval shaped and femme. I have been working to lose weight so that I would gain it back in female places and that seems to be working pretty well.
I would say to listen to your body and eat only when you are hungry, and eat only as much as you need - no plate cleaning. Also, eat healthy stuff and avoid fast food and junk food and you should do just fine.
I am also 5'8" and I weigh about 161 lbs; 110 sounds a bit on the thin side to me. If you want feminine curves you might have to eat more.