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How do I put this

Started by echo_artist, March 08, 2014, 09:42:06 AM

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echo_artist

I love my boyfriend and we've been so very close for a year and change.
I get these weird, mixed messages at times that he's okay and not okay.
He recently told me he CD's, and I see no fault to it, my problem is explaining
me wanting to transition to him...when he sees this from a
cross dresser's point. (which I didn't know it would make such a difference)
It's okay.

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Sayra

Hi Echo!

I'm sorry, I just wanted to see if I could understand your situation: your boyfriend cd's and you're all right with it, but you're not sure how to explain to him that you would like to transition to a gender that is not what you were physically born with?

To me, it sounds like there are many serious conversations that need to happen for clarification for both of you. I know that the paths you will take are unique to each of you, but certainly you can share the road and enjoy each other's comfort.

Good luck! I don't know how difficult it is, but I know what it is to love someone so much that the result of you two being together is all that matters.
S.
S.
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echo_artist

Thanks for your response Sayra. You're right on the money with your guess.
I've tried talking to him about it, I realized me having a sketch book specifically
for me explaining my issues has helped me and him alot.
From what I got from him, he was it as me just wanting to dress like a male very
badly. Once I showed him visually how it is in my mind, he's become more
sympathetic. :3
It's okay.

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Sayra

Glad things have worked out!
S.
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