It has taken me months to make the my choice, but in the end I will be blowing my SRS savings on FFS. Being realistic, I can look at my dick, do the friggin' helicoper while singing "In the rain", but not having a feminine face is my biggest source of Dysphoria and anxiety, since it dismounts any intent of presenting female through voice, movement.... A vagina will get me to nowhere if I keep being read as transsexual or worse, despite the other issues I can work on.
I got an evaluation some time ago and I know my critical points are Nose, Forehead (brow, hairline), Trach Shave, and Chin (sliding genioplasty was recommended). In that particular order from worse to less of an issue.
My original plan was to do it with Chett since I would be doing SRS with him and that would save some money on trips, but since I am putting SRS in the "to do later" list in favour of FFS (improve passability, better chances of finding a new job) I am open to choosing more surgeons. As far as I can tell:
- Low cost alternatives are out of the question. Cardenas, Femilife. It's a personal issue.
- The expensive ones (such as suporn or a few U.S. names I have heard of) are also out of my budget.
- The national option, Facial Team, nope. They are quite know for doing a very minimaslistic job.
The prices with Chett came out as 16.000€ without the chin, and 21.000€ with chin and maybe jaw line reshaping. Travel, hotel, etc included (2.500€ counting a three weeks hotel stay). I should calculatete a bit higher since ->-bleeped-<- tends to happen. As far as I can tell, this is more or less a standard medium price, and what my budget would be. My plan was like this: In the moment I go into unemployment, book a surgery date ASAP. Since I could be some months or even a year without a job, it's better to use the time rather than waiting for a new job and having to ask for a month leave. If I meet the 16.000€ goal (unless something happens), I would go with everything but the chin/jaw. If I reached the 21.000€ (very hard), I'd add that lower part.
For the people living in the U.S., I will say that Right now I have a guaranteed $ 22.000 budget, and if I am lucky and don't get fired or resume work, I can increase it to $30.000. After that amount I would go back to saving for SRS again.
I can travel to nearly any place in the globe, although Thailand was going to be my main choice. I can try some european surgeons, But they may be well over my budget. Regarding South America, I only know of Dimaggio, and I am supposed to be getting the name for another one in Brazil (I've seen the woman that has gone to him and the results look very good). Haven't thought about U.S.
So, what options do I have? Right know Chett is my main choice because of the SRS, but I really don't know if he is good, or somebody here has done it with him before. I want the surgeon to be fairly aggressive with the supraorbital, and specially with the nose (
http://www.facialsurgery.com/ClkoffTPgt3_2011_09_04mh.html). See the first two photos? I have that issue with the nasal spine, which added to the really big and long nose and supraorbital arch, make my side profile look like a rat. Also, to adjust a bit the septum since we are there.
Currently, I'm checking the surgery directory here, but still unsure. Thailand still seems like my first choice.