Quote from: Jo-is-amazing on August 08, 2014, 08:21:01 AM
Yes you, like the rest of us are going to hell...
but why wouldn't you want to, all the fun people are there and frankly, heaven just sounds dull 
Right? In my Christian days I thought a lot about the portrayal of Heaven as some shining magical kingdom with gold and jewels, and was like,
"that really doesn't sound very appealing, especially for an eternity." I've even heard theories that the people who you loved in this life who
didn't make it would be zapped from your mind while you spend forever in Paradise. That just sounds like some kind of dystopian future society like Brave New World or Logan's Run.
But think about the concept of Hell: it's supposed to be a place of eternal punishment, but punishments are meant to teach you a lesson so that you make a better choice in the future. If you subvert someone to torture indefinitely it no longer serves the purpose of punishment, and the person will not crave the presence of God, but rather have eternal contempt.
We cannot help who we are if it's written in our genes, or is the result of improper development. Why would the great force of Love toss anyone into the Abyss for simply embracing who they are if they've never once harmed another soul or disrespected their own life? It doesn't add up, logically or morally. That's the behaviour of an egotistical, self-centered tyrant; not an omniscient being of love and light.
That's why I cannot subscribe to that belief system. I appreciate the parables and the ethical teachings, but none of them are exclusive to Christianity. Christianity didn't invent morality or decency. It simply became an organised vessel for them which seems to only be evident with certain people while others use it as justification for oppressive behaviour.
All religions have a common message, but it's people who decide what it actually is. No one is good, bad, right or wrong for whatever they believe. It only becomes problematic when those beliefs start to interfere with personal liberty through threats and fear. If one religion has been morphed into a fear-mongering force of hate then I'm not about to give it any more of my time and energy. The threat of Hell should be anyone's first sign to run away as fast as possible.