Something is up with me, either I am feeling a grieving in the Spirit or I am mourning something in me. Possibly the impact on my sex life with my wife, which hurts from the point of view of being unable to take care of that basic need for her - she is male oriented and I am too far into transition for that- or worse I was disobediant through being driven by the dysphoria to transition. The docs and the hormones were direct prayer answers though. But I feel the greiving. Also being trans basically hamstrings me in the church from ministry. So does pride for that matter.
But I get weepy, and its not low estrogen its something else. It does not help that I am exhausted and feel like I am a living apologetic proving that trans is not sin. The enemy also takes advantage of this.
Anyone else go down this road?
I also remain fearful at times, paralyzing fear. If it hadn't been for my wifes vision of Christ saying to her fear not and mine with Him saying trust me I think that even with the therapy I'd be much closer to the edge than I sometimes get.
Its usually the Pauline scriptures that do me in a little, and I understand well that the Romans slide is not applicable if you didn't slide, and that effeminate is actually a cult male underage prostitute or basically concubine having relations with an older person. I get eunichism, I get Jesus's compassion and heart, but i still struggle. And I fight to stay pure, hard.
I think I may be fighting my own dysphoria a little once in a while, I keep tensing up and holding my breath, then have to do breathing excercizes to release and allow myself to feel what in childhood was utterly unacceptable. Meaning anything sensual in a female way. I could never handle it they beat the crap out of me for it verbally and sometimes physically, though with the rage I had they paid the price for it when I saw red.
Does anyone feel like their choices have grieved the Spirit or am I taking a dart or is it unavoidable grieving of the Spirit because it is an unbeatable dysphoria and it hurts sometimes me and those I love? It is unbeatable for me anyway. It crushed me. And then I buy in on well if you were really Christian you'd get healed of it or delivered from it. My mind wont believe it but the insistance of decades of preaching makes me feel like crap about it, because it was labeled as bad and a flaw and worse case demon created. Which is bull but the enemy will and does exploit it.
Thoughts my trusted friends? What do you do when overtaken by feelings like this? I strive to land on facts and I pray my head off.
Today has not been a good day. I have been right at the edge, just worn out. Its the enormity of what i did, under compulsion, with full knowledge of the consequences, and I could not stop myself from doing it, it was futile, I felt I had to transition and that it was the only possible opportunity for me to do so. The crisis was triggered by a minor BPH issue but the treatment involved Finesteride and once I looked that drug up and what it did, I was finished.
God Bless all of you. I had no place else to turn tonight.
It hurts tonight.