Life update and stuff..

[Skyler]

So iv'e been going to my gender therapist for  two weeks so far, she is pretty amazing.  I told her that i wanted to physically transition over summer break from school (with testosterone and dressing wise).  She seems on board to right me a perspiration for when i want it and started assessing me asking more personal questions. The only thing is i haven't really talked to my parents about anything yet >_<.  My therapist suggested that i ask them to use male pronouns and my preferred name, which i do want them to use and i want to tell them but i don't know how ;_;....theres no real easy way of saying it...just ugh ;alsdhjlkrihog;

[Bombadil]

I'm glad your gender therapist is supportive. That's great.

Talking to your parents is going to be really hard. Take a big breath and remember we are here to support you

[Skyler]

finally had the courage to ask my dad to use my preferred pronouns and name and he said he would do his best..but....well as you can imagine he hasn't said either of my names since asking as if trying to avoid it and hasn't used any gender specific pronouns since ....however mom is still using feminine pronouns... ugh