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Are you excessively bubbly in your fem expression or the calm passive girl type?

Started by Evelyn K, April 06, 2014, 06:21:22 PM

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Evelyn K

So I was watching this TGirl's tube video and I could only think, "does she practice being this overly animated or do cis women really express themselves this way?"



What do you think?
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FalseHybridPrincess

Well her presentation is more feminine than anything feminine Ive seen in my feminine adventures of feminine femininity

I hate stereotypes
Be the woman you want to be

FYI  most girls I know wear minimum make up and normal female clothes when they go out  , oh and they only speak so fast when they are angry or excited...

every girl has her own style...
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Evelyn K

I kind of like her style better. She seems so much more natural.

Aww such pretty tears at 8:20



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sad panda

Gigi was like that as Gregory too. Don't hate. Some people effervesce. :)
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Evelyn K

I absolutely adore this girls style above all. She's humble and turned out beautiful.

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swatch

Quote from: sad panda on April 06, 2014, 06:38:03 PM
Gigi was like that as Gregory too. Don't hate. Some people effervesce. :)
Holding a conversation with her would require a high basic amount of vital energy  :o
I'm too old for this *this*
This is ok, I guess.
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suzifrommd

I find that I don't have a communication style. I'm just me. I'm the same person I was as a guy, but I'm freer to be who I am, because I don't have to "act male."
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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MbutF

I wouldn't change much, I'd still be the same person I guess, but I'd be a lot more comfortable expressing my sensitive side.

I love the second and third video, but it's also kinda hard for me to watch, without getting emotional. I just stop after like 1 minute into the video.
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kelly_aus

I never realised I had to be one or the other..

For me, it depends on circumstances - time, place and the company I'm with.
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Evelyn K

Quote from: MbutF on April 06, 2014, 10:04:58 PM
I wouldn't change much, I'd still be the same person I guess, but I'd be a lot more comfortable expressing my sensitive side.

I love the second and third video, but it's also kinda hard for me to watch, without getting emotional. I just stop after like 1 minute into the video.

Why is the third video emotional? I've seen some of Nikolette's pre-transition videos though (forgot her other channel) where she was going through some pretty rough times with her emotions. But she gobsmacked blossomed. I'm utterly happy for her.
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Just Shelly

If I ever acted or talked like that ....please shoot me!!

I have been around my fair share of young teen girls and even they don't act this OMG way!!

The thing is she is very attractive and cis looking....but the way she acts and talks spews ->-bleeped-<-....and that's not a word I use often. But maybe this is her style and she doesn't really care much about blending in.
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sad panda

Quote from: Just Shelly on April 06, 2014, 10:27:05 PM
If I ever acted or talked like that ....please shoot me!!

I have been around my fair share of young teen girls and even they don't act this OMG way!!

The thing is she is very attractive and cis looking....but the way she acts and talks spews ->-bleeped-<-....and that's not a word I use often. But maybe this is her style and she doesn't really care much about blending in.

Oh honestly get over yourself...
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Evelyn K

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Miss_Bungle1991

I couldn't be bothered to watch any of the videos. I just don't care about that. But as far as the whole "bubbly OMG!!" thing goes, I do act like that sometimes but it's only if I am talking about something that really excites me. (Music, Noise, various animation, fics, etc) It has nothing to do with "acting out some stereotype" or any of that stuff. I'm just being me. Most of the time, I can be very quiet and reserved (which causes everyone to ask me if something is wrong, which is extremely annoying). But if something really gets me going, then yeah, I do act a bit like that. I am who I am and I make no apologies for it.
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Just Shelly

Quote from: sad panda on April 06, 2014, 10:32:36 PM
Oh honestly get over yourself...
Excuse me!!!

In a survey done on 20 people that watched her video.....9 puked and one could not stop laughing hysterically. I think she's a hoot.....perfect for Jerry Springer!!
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sandrauk

Quote from: Evelyn K on April 06, 2014, 07:06:18 PM
OH MY GOD


????

As regards the first girl- I'm about as far away from that presentation as is possible. I only got about half way through
At first I hoped that transitioning would make me come out of my shell, but watching her makes me realise that I really don't want to.
I get a similar reaction to watching her as watching Ja'mie private school girl. I'm not even sure why, maybe it's triggering something from my school days.
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meganB

Quote from: suzifrommd on April 06, 2014, 07:28:47 PM
I find that I don't have a communication style. I'm just me. I'm the same person I was as a guy, but I'm freer to be who I am, because I don't have to "act male."

This would definatly apply to me.

If you really want me to define myself I would say I'm calm girl who thinks before she acts with random outbursts of being a bubbly girl (they are rare and sometimes they pop up). Coming out and living as a young woman made me accept myself totally and that made me more opener.


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Ltl89

Okay, I feel the need to chime in.

When we transition, the whole purpose is to be true to ourselves and to be happy without caring what other people think.  At least, that's what I thought the goal is and that's what I'm striving for day after day.  When I look at someone like Gigi, I may not see myself staring back at me, but I can't help but say "good for her".  She is true to herself, liberated and free.  She doesn't seem to let anyone else hold her back or mold her into something she isn't.  Perhaps she's very animated and over the top, but that's her style and we all have our own unique personalities.  Even if I recognize all of her differences, I'm inspired at how liberated she is.  Look, none of us are the same.  We all differ in some way.  Recognizing that uniqueness and appreciating it helps us in the long run.  Don't be swayed by the people who see us all as Jerry Springer characters or Rupaul juniors.  Sure, it's annoying that we get typecasted, but then don't those people have the right to be themselves too?  We can't blame people like Gigi for societal sterotypes, she is representing herself and not our community, which I think is true for all of us.  If we were, we would be putting on a whole new set of societal expectations which I don't think is fair.
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Danielle Emmalee

Trying to imagine how I would feel being the person being talked about in this thread.  Maybe y'all should do the same.  It's pretty sad to see this thread on a support site.
Discord, I'm howlin' at the moon
And sleepin' in the middle of a summer afternoon
Discord, whatever did we do
To make you take our world away?

Discord, are we your prey alone,
Or are we just a stepping stone for taking back the throne?
Discord, we won't take it anymore
So take your tyranny away!
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