male in dreams. anybody else have this?

[Miyah48]

I'm a male in my dreams. really really wierd. I always kind of wished that my dreams would be nice to me and have me as a female, but it puts me as a male. It was a sex dream, and i seemed to be enjoying myself but i was with a woman and i like men. No sexual desire for women at all post dream. Anybody else have ass backward dreams that dont reflect how you normally feel sexually, gender, or otherwise?

[JulieBlair]

It used to happen more often than it does now.  Funny thing is, when I dream I am a man, I usually self correct and transform into a beautiful girl.  I still have pretty impressive abilities regardless when dreaming.  Seems almost sad to wake up.   

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[Jennygirl]

It used to happen more often than it does now.

+1

In fact I don't think I've had one of those for many months now. Good riddance!

I have only had one sex related dream that I can think of... it was with my ex, but I was definitely my current self

[suzifrommd]

I've started having transition related dreams, where I accidentally drop my voice or forget my wig or do something else that outs me completely, so I think I'm finally moving to the point where I'm not just living as a man there.

[Lara the Lover and the Fighter]

I've started having transition related dreams, where I accidentally drop my voice or forget my wig or do something else that outs me completely, so I think I'm finally moving to the point where I'm not just living as a man there.

Same here.  I'm always transitioning in my dream.  Sort of in between genders just like in real life. 

I suppose we are all transitioning in the dream world too.

[Nisky]

Yeah I'm having more and more dreams where I've represented myself as female in them. Or transition themes. Like I'm having FFS. Having a bunch of those. In one dream a Dr was about to perform my FFS in an ordinary office with a local anaesthetic .....lol ...scary.

[JoanneB]

My dreams tend to be evenly split between
1) Like watching a movie. I am not an active part of it
2) Me as a female
3) Me as a male

All these perspectives can change within the dream.

[Jennygirl]

Like I'm having FFS. Having a bunch of those. In one dream a Dr was about to perform my FFS in an ordinary office with a local anaesthetic .....lol ...scary.

Um yep, ditto. Super scary.

Actually right after I actually had my FFS, I was freaked out because my eyebrows were so high. In a dream one of those nights, I had elected for a re-operation and came out of it brutally disfigured by the surgeon. Most horrific nightmare I have ever had. Blehck.

[Jill F]

I am me in my dreams.  Mostly I have no sense of being a particular gender, but I have had dreams of being anatomically female since I was about 12 and I was always very sad when I woke up from those prior to transitioning.  I always hoped I'd have dreams like that because I thought that would be as close as I ever got to feeling female without guilt or shame. 

I still have dreams where I am female from the waist down, but I no longer fear waking form those dreams nor do I feel any shame.  When I wake up now, I am female and I know it.  It's also nice to want to get out of bed in the afternoon morning.