What life has been like for me as a woman of color in the eyes of whoever has seen me in person in public has been a rewarding and enlightening experience. For so long many lived in a world of illusion. A world made up as they go along. FPP (Fantasy Prone Personality) is what this mental condition is called. It affects many people, more than enough I think and there should be something done about it, some remedy for those who suffer. I am a woman, I work, shop, eat, sleep, snore, shower, and present to the world as a woman. Why is it that some people persistently want to make something of someone like me other than what they see? Or, want to make someone like me miserable? The illusion of gender given to us by fables has failed. In reality this is a definition of power. Man (powerful) and woman or under man (less than a man). The illusion of family, a lie. Given to us by fables. If we really are going to move forward, these illusions have to go don't they?