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It's a small world after all!...

Started by JesseG, April 06, 2014, 10:04:27 PM

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JesseG

I had an incredible coincidence happen to me today.

I attended a community trans support group in my city. About halfway through, one of the girls whom I've never met before started talking about her work, and name-dropped her employer - and I realized "OMG, that's the same company I work for". She mentioned she works in such-and-such IT department, and I thought, "hey, I work in IT too..."

My brain had to work extra hard at this point, and I finally recognized her. I had been working next to this person (I mean several cubicles away) for two years. We have moved offices since then, but still, once upon a time we were office colleagues. The funny thing is that it took me so long to recognize her. It then dawned on me that she also failed to recognize me! So we sat across the room in this meeting for hours never realizing we knew each other. I was pretty speechless at that point, but I managed to identify myself. Everyone at the meeting had a good laugh at the situation. The odds are wild - Calgary has over a million people - and yet there we were, both trans, same job.

We had a chat afterwards, and she recounted how she revealed the news to management and the HR department. I'm not out at work, but she totally paved the way! If / when I ever come out, I can make all sorts of jokes ("there's something in the water here!"). Sigh...

What a crazy, small world.
It's almost everything I need.
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Just Shelly

That is so unreal!! I haven't had anything that shocking happen, but some strange instances have come close!
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Evienne

That's cool! Almost reminds me of a joke like that.
I thought I had an experience like that yesterday, but it was nothing. I was at the mall with my forensics group (state today) and happened to walk buy another group who we performed with in the same room in the last round. I thought "no way! How is that possible?" But then I realized, we were at state forensics. They must have made it to, so where in town, and just so happened they went to the mall too. But that would have been so cool if we were  just randomly somewhere else.
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Ms Grace

Someone who worked for my organisation several years ago was trans* - M2F - but she wasn't out and was still in her male identity. It wasn't until a year or so after she left us that she transitioned to her female identity. I was surprised when I heard as I'd never had the slightest inkling (and clearly, neither she of me!). I know it's not quite the same as you since we're not out there at the same time but it's close!
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Adam (birkin)

Wow, that's a huge coincidence! Must have been a nice encounter though. :)
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