As a guy, as far as I can tell, I was "tall, fair and whatever". I just wasn't that interesting to cis women, surprise surprise, it was because they were interested in cis guys. My height was no magic pass to attracting women, which never seemed to happen. I never had any manly charisma which seems to be the real secret ingredient.
As a woman it would seem I'm "tall, red and (apparently) attractive". But being tall puts most guys off, many just can't see themselves with a woman that's taller than themselves. (A lament I've heard from a few tall women.) That's fine, don't see myself with guys anyway... but I really do find myself noticing the few guys who are taller than me! Don't know what lesbian women feel about tall chicks. Hopefully it has more to do with how we click than relative height and beauty.
