being outted

[latoya rayne]

Pretty sure I was outted by a bartender  at a bar I went to with a friend who has no idea I'm trans, could careless to be honest. I have a boyfriend so if I'm not sleeping with someone its my own personal buisness, but anyways I was at the bar with my friend danny and a couple times I went to use the bathroom and I think that's when she outted me. A minute ago I went to message him on fb and I noticed he blocked me, yet we had so much fun the other night? People make no f..king sense. The bar tender is this ugly troglodyte looking ass b..ch who looks like a f..king foot anyways so she's no saint herself. Nasty raspy smokers voice and she smells like straight up fish, she's just gross overall. Anyways I'm not gonna let this get to me, danny is nasty looking anyways and I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, I just wanted free drinks so I got what I wanted from him. anyways, sorry about the ranting I just wanted to get that out there 

[latoya rayne]

Also just wanted to add, the only reason she knew is because of my state id, getting it changed next month though

[Blue Rabbit]

No one likes a bitch who smells like fish.

[latoya rayne]

Agreed, bye Felicia

[jussmoi4nao]

*snap snap snap* love the attitude! You should complain to her manager for sharing your information, actually.

[Mermaid]

No one likes a bitch who smells like fish.

Ain't that the truth.

[latoya rayne]

Thank you Abby :-)  and I'm trying to figure that out actually the bars around here are strange so bartenders go to diff bars and get switched around sometimes

[Androgynous_Machine]

Pretty sure I was outted by a bartender  at a bar I went to with a friend who has no idea I'm trans, could careless to be honest. I have a boyfriend so if I'm not sleeping with someone its my own personal buisness, but anyways I was at the bar with my friend danny and a couple times I went to use the bathroom and I think that's when she outted me. A minute ago I went to message him on fb and I noticed he blocked me, yet we had so much fun the other night? People make no f..king sense. The bar tender is this ugly troglodyte looking ass b..ch who looks like a f..king foot anyways so she's no saint herself. Nasty raspy smokers voice and she smells like straight up fish, she's just gross overall. Anyways I'm not gonna let this get to me, danny is nasty looking anyways and I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, I just wanted free drinks so I got what I wanted from him. anyways, sorry about the ranting I just wanted to get that out there 

Pfft, ->-bleeped-<- that bitch.  /wavesfinger

Seriously, I have kind of an attitude especially about people spreading around my business.  I don't care if people know my T, hell I'm proud of my T; but it isn't anyone else's business and I'll have no problem walking up to a bitch to put her in her place and tell her to mind her own damn business.

With women like that you have to cut that bud off as soon as it grows.  That's the kind of bitch that will spread all kinds of bs about you if you don't check her.

-AM

[latoya rayne]

Thank you Sandro she's two faced, nice to me in the bar then does this $hit

[Androgynous_Machine]

Thank you Sandro she's two faced, nice to me in the bar then does this $hit

Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself girl.


I've seen too many transwomen get absolutely crapped on by cisgendered girls.  Many of us didn't get the advantage of being teenaged girls, so we aren't as well viced in the ways of woman-war and so many transwomen don't know how to handle it so they'll just get ->-bleeped-<- on.

Oh no, I learned real fast, stand up for yourself elsewise you'll have often decades of practice of woman-war on your hands.

-AM

[latoya rayne]

Thank you, yep I always do :