Well, I just tried to take a picture for you but I looked too gross lol but I am more then 3 and a half years on T and I DO NOT have any sort of beard. I haven't had any facial hair changes in years.
I have sparse, somewhat coarse hair on my upper lip, and it doesn't seem to grow longer when I stop shaving it, and its not noticeable unless you are very close, then I have a really patchy random section of chin hairs, maybe 10-15 of them, they are coarser then my upper lip hairs, and they also are not noticeable unless you are very close and they don't grow past a certain length.
I am very dysphoric about it, and it makes it worse seeing almost every other trans guy get a beard, or if not a beard, then at least 5X more hair then I have after 2 months or less.
It is equally frustrating that I have barely any visible body hair either, no chest hair, a hardly visible happy trail, and leg hair that is probably less then that of some women.
Its probably genes, maybe we need more time to catch up, my brothers are 26-28 and they aren't too hairy either.
But yeah I understand, its extremely frustrating, facial hair was one of the things I was most excited about but I guess its not going to happen, idk, I really don't want to look like a boy in my 30's and 40's cause I don't care how well a guy shaves, you can still tell a difference between a close shave on a guy who has a beard, and a guy with no facial hair.