I got "misgendered" again at work the other day. I wish I could be all super excited about it, but to be honest, it was like water off a duck's back. Perhaps because that's the way it's supposed to be....being called sir.
Oh and I was talking to a child's mother too, and she was pregnant. We got into the topic of family and I ask if she wanted a large family and she said no. Then she asked me. I told her I'm not interested in kids. She told me that I will change my mind when I meet that special person one day. While I knew her heart was in the right place, her statement rubbed me the wrong way. Why do I "have to meet that special person one day" in order to want kids? Why assume that I haven't met that person? Perhaps they didn't want kids either. I texted my friend and she agrees with her. She things that I would want kids if I met that special lady. I was a little bit disappointed that she would think that. I've been down that road before when it comes to relationships and wanting kids. My heart truly didn't desire kids in my last relationship and the feeling hasn't changed. I got my niece and nephews and they are enough for me. To this lady's credit though, she didn't say "find that special man". With the way I'm dressed people wouldn't think I'm into men. I don't go out of my way to dress masculine, but I sure as heck don't go out of my way to dress feminine either. I feel like I radiate masculinity.....or at least I want to.