Maybe I am the rare case in here...

[snow]

When I was a child ,my parents often said "You are "that gender",so you can't do this !!!"
Then I must pissed off and do everything against "that gender" stereotype,including intentionally to something adverse the gender stereotype.
My mother ranted to me countless times ,you are not (your physical gender)!

The reason of this kind of behavior isn't just by I hate my parents ,I hate the concept of gender identity,I am who I am ,I don't want to INTO a gender identity.

Seem most people in here is MTF and FTM ,I am not this kind ...I don't like my physical gender ,but I absolutely don't want to change to another physical gender,because I don't like both of physical genders.The genitals are quite ugly for me.

[defective snowflake]

Have you checked out the non-binary section yet?

[snow]

Have you checked out the non-binary section yet?

I don't know I belong there or not...

[defective snowflake]

I don't know I belong there or not...

Reading a bit and asking questions there is one way to find out. Non-binaries don't feel like they belong to the male or female camps exclusively and there are a number of androgynous people on here.

[snow]

Reading a bit and asking questions there is one way to find out. Non-binaries don't feel like they belong to the male or female camps exclusively and there are a number of androgynous people on here.

I guess I am not androgynous after I viewed some androgynous people photos ...But some of them looks cool.

[defective snowflake]

Its not just about looks, how you identify doesn't have to match a certain look or appearance really. Just read what interests you, ask questions that you may have and if nothing else, make some nice friends here. finding your place isn't always a speedy process and it can change depending on how you may feel at any given time. 

[Ltl89]

When I was a child ,my parents often said "You are "that gender",so you can't do this !!!"
Then I must pissed off and do everything against "that gender" stereotype,including intentionally to something adverse the gender stereotype.
My mother ranted to me countless times ,you are not (your physical gender)!

The reason of this kind of behavior isn't just by I hate my parents ,I hate the concept of gender identity,I am who I am ,I don't want to INTO a gender identity.

Seem most people in here is MTF and FTM ,I am not this kind ...I don't like my physical gender ,but I absolutely don't want to change to another physical gender,because I don't like both of physical genders.The genitals are quite ugly for me.

I used to get told the same stuff all the time by my mother and sisters.  It started to be used more and more as I got older.  It's such a stupid thing to say.  Gender should sort of be irrelevant when it comes to someone's personality and interests.  For me, it's a deeper thing than that.  Don't be swayed by other peoples attempts to lump you into a category that isn't right for you. 

[Li]

Live is right. you shouldnt let others sway you int a category. its your choice not theirs.

[makipu]

Hi Snow, I am actually kind of like how you describe. Even though I legally changed my gender to male and ABSOLUTELY HATE ALL the female body parts that I unfortunately posses physically, I don't intend to act like a stereotypical (binary) male or female. That's just not who I am as a person. I don't act or even present as any of the genders so I am a nonconformist.