As the only member of my religion I will speak here, of fairness.
Sometimes people do not understand fairness or what it means.
They speak of love, and are anti gay
They talk of what makes then happy, and fail to accept what makes others happy.
Things such as this are aparant in many people that preach the teachings of specific religiouse books. Exspecialy when speaking of the path to heaven. They talk about fairness when they do this, but do not show fairness in their lessons.
The idea of fairness to many is that we should all do the same, but how can this be fair when that means the strong and the week must both life that which is heavy? So do somthing that os easey for them and other do somthing that is hard? This is not fairness. True fairness is in, encompasing diversaty, that way the weight carried is in praportion to one strength.
Happyness? And the right and wrongs of transition? If you are happy in your body then transition is a selfish act? But if you are not happy in your body then it is not selfish, why? Because transition is done to perserve your life. Speacking of unachs, their are unachs that are born unachs, unachs that have been made so by others, and unachs that have made themselve unachs for the perpose of heaven. And all are welcome in heaven. What many do not understand is that transition for us, means somthing different to us then they. Transition is done in persuit of happyness, and we persue happyness in order to atain a life worth living. Without happyness life has no worth and god knows this, this is why god wants us to be happy.
People happy in their boidies have no need to transition and it is wrong for then to do this, and they know it is wrong, however that misconception of fairness leads then to belive that since it is wrong for them, that it is wrong for everybody els also. This is true blindness of faith.
Oh how many times I was young and did silly things, and when cuagth by my parents would I say, person did it too. And my farther would say, if they jumped of a cliff would you do that aswell? In heaven person did this too is nothing, what is somthing is that we did it. And organised religions fail in this regard, because they teach you must do it because person did and so am I.
Back to the path into heaven, its is described as a streight and narrow line and tuaght as it means I hold onto this and so must you. I walk this path and so must you. But this is not true. Yes it is streight, but it is not streight in terms of what one does, but why one does.
For twenty five years I lived a misserable life, for the beinifit of my farther and freinds and family, I became their hopes their desires and their dreams. This hurt because I wasn't happy and felt selfish at the though that my happyness would come at the loss of theirs. Life for me was not fair, and became so unbearable that going on like that would ultimatelly cause missery to everybody I loved. I knew this and asked of god, how can it be that either me or everybody I love be misserable. How can I and my family be happy?
I received and answer, its can only be if we all choose to be happy. I was misserable because I was choosing to be misserable. And I can choose to be happy.
I asked how can my family be happy with this choice of mine, if they choose to by happy again was my answer.
I choose to be happy. And my farther choose to be happy his child was brave anought to choose happyness. When he could of been missarable his child didn't choose his.
Before comming out I struggled with the teaching of the line, And I asked god how can this line be right if I'm not alowed to do this. And he told me that two men can choose a differant fork in the road without diverging from that line. I asked god how this could be true if the line is streight. He told me both men belive they are making the right choice, and it is not the choice that is the line, but why we choose.
This is true fairness. People only see the choice, and jundge by thiers wether it is right or wrong, but they do this being completely unable to see the reasoning, if they could they would see the reasoning is the same.
God does want us to be happy, and god know we need different things to be happy. Man on the other hand only know what make them happy. They forget we are unique and act as though we are identicle.
I let god into my heart, and god is their when I need god. God stands behind me if the face of the misguided. They speak of things they can not know, so they speak to me as though I am they.
What is right for one is not what is right for another, Do not to another what you would not them to you. But this is the sprite not the body.
