Damnit...

[Alainaluvsu]

Well it finally happened. I met a guy that didn't know I was trans from the start, and now he really likes me I think. He's flirting with me quite a bit, and now I'm going to have to tell him before anything else goes on. Anybody have 20 grand they can toss me really fast so I don't have to tell him? lol...

[Michelle G]

20 grand and buy yourself six months, 

How understanding do ya think he is?

[Alainaluvsu]

I can tell him some BS reason about why I can't have sex for 6 months. I'm not sure how understanding he is. I've only known him for a week.

[Just Shelly]

Tell him now before you fall for him!! I'm having to try and forget the man I was just with the last 2 months....only because I had to finally tell him I miss him dearly

[Alainaluvsu]

I'm telling him tomorrow. What sucks is I'd have figured anybody who's friends with me on FB for a week would figure it out. I have a zillion trans friends, my roommate (who is in my profile picture with me) is transgender, and some of my photos I'm at pride rallies with trans people in. Maybe he knows, but he hasn't brought it up or even hinted at it. Not only that, but the friends house I met him at, that friend knows I'm transgender too.

[Emily.T]

Maybe he does know and still likes you for you.  Btw you are gorgeous in your pic

[Alainaluvsu]

That's what I'm hoping, but something tells me he doesn't. I'm never that lucky, lol.

And thank you

[alabamagirl]

Maybe he does know and still likes you for you.

Exactly what I was thinking. Just because he hasn't brought it up doesn't mean he doesn't know. Maybe it's a total non-issue for him.

[Alaia]

I have a zillion trans friends, my roommate (who is in my profile picture with me) is transgender, and some of my photos I'm at pride rallies with trans people in. Maybe he knows, but he hasn't brought it up or even hinted at it. Not only that, but the friends house I met him at, that friend knows I'm transgender too.

If it's as obvious as you say it is with all that then I'd bet he probably does know but is totally cool with it. And likely hasn't said anything because he wants to let you know he respects you as the woman you are. 

[stephaniec]

I think for the thought not to have crossed his mind are the same odds as the lottery

[Alainaluvsu]

He knew. He said:

"I'm okay with that. I already knew. "(Common friend) told me and I was shocked just cause of the surprise, but then it was like ok".

Awesome!

[Joanna Dark]

He knew. He said:

"I'm okay with that. I already knew. "(Common friend) told me and I was shocked just cause of the surprise, but then it was like ok".

Awesome!

That's so awesome!!!!!!! I'm so so so happy for you!!!

[sveebee85]

He knew. He said:

"I'm okay with that. I already knew. "(Common friend) told me and I was shocked just cause of the surprise, but then it was like ok".

Awesome!

oh great!
that´s awesome, wish you the best.
hopefully it´ll not a big problem for him
i really hate those moments when i have to "come out with my past"

[Alainaluvsu]

No. When I made a comment about him not acting like he knew, he literally said "The reason I didn't act like it was because you are a girl so I treat you like one". That is a direct quote off of the message in FB. He asked one question about my safety (being trans), and then we started to talk about video games and food for the next hour or two. No other mention of the gender thing.

I think I'm okay

[ashrock]

That's what I'm hoping, but something tells me he doesn't. I'm never that lucky, lol.

And thank you

He knew. He said:

"I'm okay with that. I already knew. "(Common friend) told me and I was shocked just cause of the surprise, but then it was like ok".

Awesome!

So I guess you ARE that lucky.  Some girls have all the luck...

[BunnyBee]

He knew. He said:

"I'm okay with that. I already knew. "(Common friend) told me and I was shocked just cause of the surprise, but then it was like ok".

Awesome!

Woohoo!

[stephaniec]

that's great . I'm turning so green with envy

[ZoeM]

Congratulations, Alaina! I'm so happy for you
Keep hold of this one - from what you've said he sounds like a keeper for sure

[Alainaluvsu]

Thanks yall. He's great. I'll make it work. You're all great too

[Just Shelly]

Very very cool!!! I just recently went through a similar thing. The difference was he didn't want to still date me. I do have to appreciate though that he has remained my friend....its so hard though when I still would like more and the only reason he won't is because of my equipment!! UGH!!

I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT THE BEST!!