Vicky
I certainly thought about taking this route. However the 2 non FFS surgeons I spoke with just couldn't seem to understand why I, as a fairly large and fit male, was asking for multiple procedures which were designed to feminise my face. It became even more frustrating when I started to ask for examples of the work that they had done on males to soften or to androgenise their features.
This communications issue and lack of referencable work was then compounded by the difficulty they had in presenting alternatives which as a package provided with a more androgynous, quite feminine or very feminine face.
Given the above I spoke with Drs O, S and Z. They really understood what I was asking, introduced me to patients who had had similar objectives, provided a massive amount of referencable work and won my confidence. I chose Dr Z and have been very happy with the work. Like you there was some scarring and I needed later scar revision and a muscle repair, but can say that I achieved my objective. Perhaps if I had just been dealing with my nose, chin, cheeks or eyes I may have risked a non FFS surgeon.
Nevertheless I am also keen to hear if anyone on this forum took this course.
Aisla