A lot of impressive Biblical knowledge in play and it flushed us out to share, all good
My take on it is that it is one of those problem verses for me that even when rebutted, it destabilizes me. That unfortunately is not good. What brings me back is some of the other laws that if in play, would result in a lot of dead people through stoning. I'll take grace and forgiveness over that any day.
But the idea of being in rebellion for me is not one I care to indulge. I have to rely on my experience with Christ, and since I feel the connection in prayer in my fully transitioned times, and my hidden transition times living genderqueer, and since I see the evidence of answered prayers, I know the cross has me covered. I look at the fruit, and in my scenario, I can't possibly live by this law if it applies. It would destroy me and silence me, clearly this is not God's intent for my life, nor would the depression and angst have anything good for my family as they suffer with my deadly dysphoria in full conflict with me, causing me to be anxious, irritable, and obsessed.
No I will take living a pure life as a nonbinary transsexual instead. I have been delivered from so much sin since transitioning, so much deception self and otherwise, I must conclude that I am on the right path to meet Jesus, not the crushing path of a legalistic law I cannot possibly live. And I see the fruit of others forcing that law upon us as very negative, with a root that they are better than us somewhere under the condemnation of us, thereby getting them into deep doo doo with our God, who strongly dislikes self righteousness based on putting other people down.
I have to read more, may comment again. I am impressed, humbled, pleased to be here in your company.
God Bless, hugs to all.