Being a transgender who wont transition and all.

[ashley_thomas]

Transition or not, but stop the hair loss.  That's a guy thing to do to.  If you stop it, you can still transition later if you change your mind with no additional hair loss, say like I did when I achieved level 4 round with GD at the age of 38 and said I have to do it.  Thankfully I have all of my hair, but at 6'4" (185lbs) I still have plenty of challenges.

Get finasteride or an equivalent pronto.

[Kiwi]

Hun I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Let us hope that in the future as the world becomes more open, aware, and sympathetic to our situation the laws in Italy will change. In the meantime hun, we all here support you and are here for you if you need us. Here's a super big cyber hug from me to you.

All my best.

Ally

Thank you very much, to you all. It really means a lot to me
Hope I can find here the support I lack around me.

[helen2010]

Thank you very much, to you all. It really means a lot to me
Hope I can find here the support I lack around me.

Kiwi

I certainly hope and believe that you will.   My experience is that the folk on Susans are genuine, authentic and always willing to listen, support and share their experience.  Over time the depth of relationship and warmth given by unexpected but well met friends and wise fellow travellers have been quite awe inspiring.

I wish you well

Aisla

[Jess42]

People keep saying that, but I really don't think so.  I'm the tiniest, not even measurable bit under 6'0".  I have a size 7/8 ring finger, but my hands are pretty huge and all bone with very long fingers, a pretty wide palm and veins for days.  I'm a size 10 men's shoe.  My rib cage feels pretty durable, not huge, but certainly out of normal female range.  I'm 150lbs and can get down to 135 with ease, but even still feel like my ribs prevent me from looking "girl thin."  I'm 26 and feel like hormones wouldn't make me look any different at all.  I'd need a bit of FFS and a slight hair transplant.  That's a wig, my hair color, but it's a wig.  I still have a lot of hair, basically a full head, but I've lost a good bit and my hairline has receded a little, so I'd need to hold out for hrt stopping that.  I have not much of a butt and really no hips at all either.  I'd get all the body work I could; I just almost feel like it still wouldn't work.

I don't really feel that I'm good looking, but I've been told otherwise.  I think I may just be over critical.  A few years back I was driving behind my mother and when we spoke again, she told me that since I had shaved and was wearing a knit hat that I was so good looking that you couldn't tell if I was a boy or a girl.  That was before I came out and told her, and I wasn't a feminine boy, so she wasn't trying to please me.  Then my aunt a few years back told me not to take it the wrong way, but that I was so good looking that it was almost a shame I wasn't born a girl.  She had no idea that I was trans at all either.  I wasn't grooming my eyebrows or anything in either instance.  I also go out for rides sometimes and drive through major cities on Friday + Saturday nights, stop at red lights, have literally hundreds of people passing by looking right at me within a few feet and I can tell that I pass while driving.  I've even had men (like, college guys) give me looks.  I'm attracted to you looks, not I'm clocking you looks.  I had a homeless guy come up asking for change last time and he took his hat off and bowed to me when asking.  I also once looked over and there were these two girls in the car next to me, one was giving me the finger and I'm pretty sure she was being catty because I was driving a nice car and was heavily made up.  Another time a few girls were standing in front of a club and they looked at me; one of them was just like, "oohhh, look at me," again being catty I guess.  I feel my face is the most feminine thing I have, but I'd still need some work and I think my overall athleticism and length would just be too much.  I don't like this, but I'll go on record saying it's more than likely that I'm one of the top athletes on here.  I'm slim muscle, don't even look muscular, but I for some reason still just look like I could kick your ass.

Thanks a lot though, I really do appreciate comments like that, makes me think maybe I have a chance.  Sooner or later I'll post a full body shot to see what people's opinions are then.  I'm pretty thin, not really bulky, but I still feel I look a bit off.  Thanks again tho, you just earned some points...
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I have dated girls that have towered over me, so don't let that stop you. I have also dated guys that I am taller than, so don't let that stop you either. More about me is female than male except for, Ya' know.
Just don't limit yourself because believe me hon, there is no perfect guys or girls. But there is someone perfect for yourself. Again, I am a hopeless roamntic though and believe there is someone. A Soulmate more or less. I know, you can call me cheesy now.

[Jess42]

I have dated girls that have towered over me, so don't let that stop you. I have also dated guys that I am taller than, so don't let that stop you either. More about me is female than male except for, Ya' know.
Just don't limit yourself because believe me hon, there is no perfect guys or girls. But there is someone perfect for yourself. Again, I am a hopeless roamntic though and believe there is someone. A Soulmate more or less. I know, you can call me cheesy now.

Anyway, I have no idea why it combinded my your quote sith my rply but I did reply and the above is it.