HELP!!!!! my 21st birthday is approaching fast

[Elanore joey]

Nope, you ain't average. You identify as trans for a start. That is not average by any means..


Ok, solutions.

1. Stop feeling old. It is silly..
2. Push the family for a new bike.
3. Deed polls are peanuts cost wise. Like £20 on line. or download one and print them off yourself. In the uk, you have the legal right to call yourself what you want. The rest is just free paperwork/admin. So, that is a cheapo thing to look forward to.

Next...

how do i stop feeling old firstly. i like most of us on here have been through so much in such a short space of life.
second im not sure if i am ready for deed poll stuff im not used to being called Elanore and im still not comfortable with some people calling me Elanore

[nikkit72]

Ok, why do you feel old ? Just because you have been through a lot should not make you feel old. If you want to feel young, stop dwelling on the past. Look for new things. There is a world of new out there. Go and get some.

And deed poll or anything transition related can wait until you are ready. Nothing is mandatory in this game until you involve the NHS, but that is another story.