Butt plug type method instead of dilating ?!?!

[TinaVane]

I hope this is not to out there but why they do not make hhhmmmm something like a butt plug thing after srs/grs ? Where you can just keep it up there and open? Is there a danger to that or like does a neovagina not have a grip (guess that is the right word ) like the anus.



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[Dena]

The muscles don't exist at the mouth of the vagina to hold anything in. In addition, the mouth of the vagina needs to be dilated as it can close up. Sorry but you have to lay there with one hand holding everything in place if you want to do it right. If you use a harness, there is a possibility you will not supply sufficient pressure to maintain proper depth.

[Jenna Marie]

The explanation, according to Brassard's nurses, is twofold : risk of infection, and risk that the skin will grow *around* it while it's healing. (I got the impression that something like that might be safe a few months later, but by that point, why would I trade one 20-minute dilation a day for wearing something all the time? )

Dena, we have the same muscles cis women do (in fact, those PC muscles are what make dilation a pain early on). I can definitely both clamp down on the dilator and push it out with them. Of course, they're not the same as the anal muscles, in cis women or in us, and they *do* get tired.

[TinaVane]

So glad you guys did not get offended by it like the people on ->-bleeped-<-. You would think I was a transphobic person by listening to the response I received over there (even tho I'm trans and plan on getting my surge this year or early 2017) ... Thanks for the response cupcakes


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[AnonyMs]

A few surgeons use a vaginal stent post-op which is basically the same idea. Its not very common though.

[TinaVane]

A few surgeons use a vaginal stent post-op which is basically the same idea. Its not very common though.

Yea but that's just for like the first week right I'm trying my hardest not to look at video of this operation lol


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[AnonyMs]

It's for a lot longer than the first week. I think Andy Ives may use them, and there's a European surgeon too.

[warlockmaker]

I'm in the begining of the 4th week of dilation and a butt plug type would not be doable as the end needs to be narrower and I've not seen a 7 inch butt plug.

The trick to hold the dilator in place is to lay a towel folded to a 1 ft width and long. Lay that under yourself, after inserting to the depth just pull the towel up to your chest and it will maintain pressure and you can do what you want .

[AnonyMs]

Warlockmaker, is that a new photo of you? You look fantastic.

[warlockmaker]

Thanks Anony. Yes ...went out last night for dinner for the first time since surgery, almost 4 weeks ago  ...still some minor swelling ...the FFS surgeon was absolutely brilliant  but the whole process was amazing ... thanks to my surgeons at PAI.

[TinaVane]

Thanks Anony. Yes ...went out last night for dinner for the first time since surgery, almost 4 weeks ago  ...still some minor swelling ...the FFS surgeon was absolutely brilliant  but the whole process was amazing ... thanks to my surgeons at PAI.

Do you reside in Thailand ? I plan on going to preecha


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[AnonyMs]

Thanks Anony. Yes ...went out last night for dinner for the first time since surgery, almost 4 weeks ago  ...still some minor swelling ...the FFS surgeon was absolutely brilliant  but the whole process was amazing ... thanks to my surgeons at PAI.

I've actually got quite a strong urge to get over to Bangkok and see you in person. I can't believe it.

Who was the FFS surgeon?

[warlockmaker]

Hi Tina..yes I now live here. You will love it especially in the Thonglor area where PAI clinic is. A real hip area now ....you can PM me when you are here.

Hi Anony. Dr Sirachai is the ffs surgeon..Would love to pit a face to the nom de plume .

[TinaVane]

Hi Tina..yes I now live here. You will love it especially in the Thonglor area where PAI clinic is. A real hip area now ....you can PM me when you are here.

Hi Anony. Dr Sirachai is the ffs surgeon..Would love to pit a face to the nom de plume .

I would love too ... I been listening to Thai music trying to somewhat learn the language


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[LizMarie]

I find that inserting my dilators fully, holding it in place briefly, then simply crossing my legs works. I am six months post-op and still have well over 6 inches of depth and can fully and easily accommodate Mr. Orange these days without a second thought.

[Serenation]

It's for a lot longer than the first week. I think Andy Ives may use them, and there's a European surgeon too.

for most of the of the first week you have packing. The foams were about a week from memory