My wife and I are a bit lost when it comes to making love now. I think she is confused as to what to do with a penis that isn't erect. She has been with women before, but being with a woman with a barely functioning penis is throwing her off a bit. She also loves being penetrated but I think the idea of me wearing a strap on when I have a penis seems odd to her and unappealing. She loves penetration during sex and giving me an orgasm that way and her own O was a bit optional and only for when she was in the right mood a couple of times a month. The other interesting thing is that she becomes a nympho when it comes to pleasing others but if I don't have an erection then that doesn't quite work and in her mind what is the point of her pleasing a strap on? Her main satisfaction from sex is please a hard penis to orgasm. If I go on HRT then this dynamic may not work anymore and then what will we do? As I write this the only thing I can think of is that she will need to redefine what sex means to her and perhaps permit herself to experience more physical pleasure herself. So confusing...