well okay seeing as I finally de-lurked I guess it's time for an intro

[Nicodeme]

Hi!

You may call me Nicodeme or Nico or "WHY DOES YOUR NAME RHYME WITH NICOTENE" (It's supposed to be read as nick-oh-dame but FRENCH AMIRITE)

I'm...female-assigned but still trying to figure out if, for me and my gender feels, that translates into me being a transguy or transmasculine or nonbinary or something. I've identified as all of those things at different times and man it's exhausting. I'm trying to figure out what to do with myself once more and a lot of that will probably involve me primarily...well. Lurking. :p

You all seem nice. It's good to be here.

[Jessica Merriman]

A big warm welcome Nicodeme! this is definitely the place for support and to learn. Most of us have been where you are now so we totally understand your feelings. So relax and dig right in! 

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[ana1111]

hello im new too and have totally been in your situation just on the other side of things

[Nicodeme]

Thanks folks! 

[Claire (formerly Magdalena)]

Hi Nicotene! 

Welcome to the family. Some people see the world with labels, I think they need them. It's a comfort thing. If you don't fit under one arbitrary label or other, so what? You just have to be you, anything else is window dressing. Lurk if you must, read what you will, and contribute when you are moved to do so. There are no limits to questions you may ask. There is no pressure.