So i have met Ian's parents!! I am engaged

[Nero]

Um, this avatar has been used multiple times on this site. In fact, one of our staff members regularly used it in 2007. It's just a stock 'goth girl' avatar.

[Ginny]

Um, this avatar has been used multiple times on this site. In fact, one of our staff members regularly used it in 2007. It's just a stock 'goth girl' avatar.

Well that's just rude to post on an engagement thread. Tsk Tsk Tsk. By the way I just did an intensive internet search and couldn't find it.  Perhaps it was just a similar photo.  Also please respond to me and not this thread if you would like to respond.


Congrats again Jayne 
❤Jenny

[Nero]

Um, this avatar has been used multiple times on this site. In fact, one of our staff members regularly used it in 2007. It's just a stock 'goth girl' avatar.

Well that's just rude to post on an engagement thread. Tsk Tsk Tsk. By the way I just did an intensive internet search and couldn't find it.  Perhaps it was just a similar photo.  Also please respond to me and not this thread if you would like to respond.


Congrats again Jayne 
❤Jenny

Don't tell me how to respond. Rude? We've had member complaints about it. One of our mods turned up hundreds of this same photo in a search. Not to mention, I know this photo has been used several times on this site. It's rude for me to call her out? It's far ruder to pretend she's someone she's not. That's not allowed here. This is not a fantasy site. If someone wants to play out a fantasy, there are other avenues. Susans is for real people.

[stephaniec]

Well that's just rude to post on an engagement thread. Tsk Tsk Tsk. By the way I just did an intensive internet search and couldn't find it.  Perhaps it was just a similar photo.  Also please respond to me and not this thread if you would like to respond.


Congrats again Jayne 
❤Jenny


Don't tell me how to respond. Rude? We've had member complaints about it. One of our mods turned up hundreds of this same photo in a search. Not to mention, I know this photo has been used several times on this site. It's rude for me to call her out? It's far ruder to pretend she's someone she's not. That's not allowed here. This is not a fantasy site. If someone wants to play out a fantasy, there are other avenues. Susans is for real people.

agree , not fair at all to be a very pretty transitioner and the reality is who knows what you look like. There was no denial when another member questioned it. This is a support site not a site to drive others into depression

[stephaniec]

Um, this avatar has been used multiple times on this site. In fact, one of our staff members regularly used it in 2007. It's just a stock 'goth girl' avatar.

Just Google  Goth girl  in black  sitting in yard

[Ravensong]

Jayne, Congrats hun!  I know love can strike quick.  My parents had known each other three weeks before engagement and my wife and I were talking wedding stuff just two weeks after we met.  My parents are still together after 30-something years.

As far as the avatar goes, it sounds like Jayne is just saying that the picture is pretty much what she looks like, not that it is her.  The way her answer was worded does not seem to say that she is passing this photo off as herself, just that it is very much like her.  I may be wrong, but that is my view on the matter.

[stephaniec]

Jayne, Congrats hun!  I know love can strike quick.  My parents had known each other three weeks before engagement and my wife and I were talking wedding stuff just two weeks after we met.  My parents are still together after 30-something years.

As far as the avatar goes, it sounds like Jayne is just saying that the picture is pretty much what she looks like, not that it is her.  The way her answer was worded does not seem to say that she is passing this photo off as herself, just that it is very much like her.  I may be wrong, but that is my view on the matter.

I don't mean harm or ill will , but fair is fair . she said the photo was slightly photo shopped which is quite different than similar

[Bijou]

So the way I took her response "yes with a little photoshop!!!", was not that the picture was her, but could be with a little photoshop usage. I think it was a poorly worded response that did not warrant the pitchforks and torches it received. Calm down, people.

[Evelyn K]

What's hilarious is the people swallowing all of this hook line and sinker.

[stephaniec]

What's hilarious is the people swallowing all of this hook line and sinker.

agreed

[Evelyn K]

Well that's just rude to post on an engagement thread. Tsk Tsk Tsk. By the way I just did an intensive internet search and couldn't find it.  Perhaps it was just a similar photo.  Also please respond to me and not this thread if you would like to respond.


Congrats again Jayne 
❤Jenny

Is this engagement real? I mean seriously, step back folks. Who marries someone after meeting them in 10 days?

[Ms Grace]

Some people can and do.

While there may be some questions that need answering, at this stage Jayne has done nothing more than post a widely used pic as her avatar and suggested (depending on your interpretation of the way she said it) that it may be her.

But this isn't an opportunity for a lynch mob, please leave the moderating to the moderators.