grrrr... people

[jonjon]

Ok, so some guy comes up to me and says "Oh, yeah, you'd never be able to pull a straight girl, cos they will know straight away what you are."

¬_¬ oh yeah, just pee pee on my parade why dont ya?

Why wont i be able to pull a straight girl?

Jon doesn't feel so great about going out tonight now  I'll just curl up and feels orry for myself instead 

[Manyfaces]

Stupid and mean people suck.  Ignore 'em.  I think you'll look and be just fine.

[jonjon]

but it's really crushed my confidence now... yanno what they say. Ignorance is bliss.

And at this point in time i dont really know what more i can do to be able to pass.

And that makes me go grrrr... cos i know there's a whole massive path forward in this game... but just getting past that damn gate, is like trying to high jump the palace walls. It aint guna happen in a hurry.

[Laura Elizabeth Jones]

Do not let that get to you, Wishy. Unfortunately, stupid and mean people are a dime a dozen in this world and you just need to learn to tune them out.

[Kimberly]

Um, dude?

You don't register on my girl scale, sorry, just... no. Just a cute guy, that is all I see.


You have to remember that the world is comprised of all types, there are bunches out there with preferences all across the spectrum. An to be blunt I really do think the majority are not so small minded to really care. Yeah, some have to have the normal equipment, but not all. Dude, there is SO much more to a man than the equipment of one.

I will give you a hint, you FTMs are just fine with me more times than not. Now granted I am not straight, but my preferences in girls VASTLY differs than my preferences in guys. Most of what I like in a guy isn't the physical anyway, it's the mental the attitude the confidence that... aura. ^*shrug* You look just fine Wishy, don't worry about that. T will make a great big change of it all anyway, seriously don't worry about the physical it is not that big of a deal.

So, um, yeah, make me as one who doesn't think that the guy who said that has a clue...

[Pysgod]

Wishy a girl? Hehe good one. Dude you should just ignore morons like that. You could always just give them the death look.

[Jonie]

Believe me Wishy, eventually when you get on hormones and you start speaking with a deeper voice and growing some facial hair nobody and I mean nobody will ever really believe your anything but a guy. The reason this guy said that was because making you feel bad showed him that he has power, and he thinks "power good, that mean me good too, me happy now."

[Dennis]

I second what everyone's said. Nobody has any clue how well you'll pass or what straight women will think of you once you've been on T for a while. My ex said pretty well the same thing to me after we split. Like Jonie said, it's just a power trip.

Dennis

[Jay]

Definetly Wishy I hear what everyone else has said! Dont listen to them bankers (get it) I would just go out there and get ya self some ladies!!!!!!

[Keira]

Remember what I said Wishy,
Most men that female find attractive have a slightly "feminine" face.
Yours is right right in that ballpark once T hits to becoming
a heartrob  Only lack a few stubbles to break hearts
left and right.

Right now, you'll have to "settle" on just a dozen girl checking you out 

[Ms.Behavin]

I second or is it third what every one else said,  You have very guyish features and will be a very dashing guy once the T hit's the system.       nasty people are a dime a dozen.  Be glad you get to be you and know who you want to be now.  Oh to be 20 again.

Beni

[Karla B]

Hi ! Wishy, I've been a member here for a couple of weeks now. So I don't know everybody that well yet.
when I saw your Pic, I thought that you were a M2F that hadn't started to transition yet. BOY! I had no idea that you're a F2M.
So in that case, You look quite passable to me. Just for the record, I'M still very much male!

As for the idiots, I'd just schrug it off and don't show them that what they said to you, bothers you. Besides that, they're going to be pretty jealous of you, when you start getting more girls than they are.    Then they might even start asking you for pointers. 

Just go and enjoy your nights out!

[jonjon]

i still keep getting called a lady when i'm out though.

WHY!!!!!!!!??

Makes me wana plant a huge massive fat one on their face.

And i'm beginning to hate all this talk of T because thats just the golden pot at the end of the rainbow that the leprechauns ran off with ¬_¬

And i duno why... so sorry you guys, but i just feel so angry... about everything. I'm not an angry person, usually all calm and i can laugh anything off... but lately.... everything and i mean EVERYTHING is getting to me. People say stuff that i hear all the time, like my mum yesterday saying "You're not a boy yet, you're still a girl." She keeps saying it, over and over at me, and then when someone else mentions something i just snapped. I cant take people no more, i cant take their damn words of negativity at me.

Sorry.... i'll shut up now. Supposed to be my lovely two weeks off work.... and all i'm doing is getting angry.

[Ender]

Hey Wishy. Yeah, I get the anger; seems that's where I'm at now...  Generally I'm pretty mellow, but comments that deny who I am set me off right now--y'know, the statements that might as well say 'you aren't and never will be male.'  Guess it's mainly frustration now... I should look into mounting a punching bag to my ceiling or something.

[Ms Bev]

Wishy, hon....

You simply just do not look like a girl.  Sorry, but you look like a young man, all the way.  When I was that young, I looked kind of girlish.   You just look very guyish to me, and I have reeeely good radar!
Ignore them, and go out and have a great time.

Bev

[RebeccaFog]

Be patient.

Ignore jackasses.

Be who you are.

When someone attacks you, they are attacking themselves.

Maybe you need to do something different to put your mind in a better place.  I mean, being on vacation.  Just pick a couple of places you normally wouldn't go to, then go there and kill some time away from people you usually see around.

[Aeyra]

Yes. Some males look feminine. I have a hard time passing as a male and I am MTF!