I used the adhesive they sent me (Telesis 5). It is not the adhesive they recommend by name on the website, but as they do state that any silicone adhesive can be used/the bond-strength of the adhesive depends on the person, I'm not sure this means much in particular. I will try the specified adhesive as it isn't too costly ($30 bucks) and is also recommended by LolaJake for use with their tape kit.
As for why I think it may be the adhesive rather than the prosthetic, I've just been reading up on some old posts about other difficult to adhere prosthetics:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=98347.0https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,92391.20.htmlhttp://transguys.com/product-reviews/packersUseful quotes:
"One thing I wanted to say is that you need to allow time for the adhesive to dry. At least a couple of hours before you declare the whole thing a failure. If you feel motivated enough you can purchase the tape kit from Lola Jake. That cuts the drying time in half."
"It's been tricky getting the thing to dry in the right place. It takes a few hours actually. If I start wearing it without making sure it's completely dried it tends to slide to one side. Which obviously doesn't look quite right and gets glue everywhere. I've ended up with my clothing glued to me a few times."
"I have to stand holding on to it tight for like 5 minutes and then sit down holding it for another 10 or so. Then I put on a tight jockstrap to hold it there while moving very carefully for hours. However like I said once it is glued it will stay put through showers and sleeping for days. I do have to do occasional touch-ups around the edges but that's not a big deal. I hate taking it off. Going through that whole drying ordeal is no fun. "
"Can some one tell me what exactly the Lola Jake "Tape kit" is made out of? I THINK the tape kit is just strong silicone adhesive that bonds the prosthetic TO a strip of plastic tape...which you THEN use medical adhesive to stick to the skin. Because silicone does not stick to skin directly very well, so it essentially sticks to something to it that does stick to the body better."
Maybe I didn't wait long enough...maybe I didn't secure it properly while it dried...maybe some sort of "barrier" might help things stay stuck. Or maybe it's just the wrong adhesive for my body chemistry.
Or it could just be the prosthetic. I mean, clearly SOMETHING is up with the prosthetic if RM doesn't require all this effort and guesswork. I'm just wondering if it's something that can be overcome, you know?