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Started by Blue Senpai, July 03, 2014, 09:47:47 PM

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Blue Senpai

Quote from: Brandon on July 04, 2014, 02:20:37 PM
Ohh well all I'm saying is everyone has a preference but you shouldn't be rude about it, Just my take.

These weren't preferences, she will really NOT date dark sinned people at all. It's not a preference since there's no chance of her dating my friend or anyone with the same skin complexion, she made that perfectly clear.
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Ephemeral

Just short of 5"3 here or 158-160 cm-ish. It  bothers me a lot and my biological dad is 173 cm or something and I always wanted to be tall like my cousin of my age who is 170+ cm and is female, and even my biological mom is taller than me. It just sucks because it's such a life-long desire ever since I was a kid to be a moderately tall person. I had almost forgotten about it when I lived as a female but when I researched T and such it re-ignited the desire to be tall but I am unfortunately extremely likely too old to grow now being closer to 30 than 20. I wish I had pursued this when I was 17 when I finally began realizing, not now 9 years later. At least if they had given me therapy at 18 I could have grown more.

I try to deal with it by telling myself I'm Asian and my height while short even for Asian men is acceptable. I also feel better when I see other men at my height. I think living in Scandinavia doesn't help since I think the average height here is like 5"9 at least or closer to 180 cm or something for men. I keep comparing myself to those and while it's dumb it makes me dysphoric especially since I always wanted to be tall, ever since I was a child.
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Silver Centurion

I'm 5'7" ish and gain an inch or two from the kind of shoes I wear. I have found myself to be taller than most women that I see often or at school and never really considered height to be much of a problem. My first boyfriend in high school was several inches shorter than me and it was fine. He went on to date many more people. Parents heights really play into things though. My dad is 6'3" and my mom is barely 5'3". My brother wound up at 6'2" so both kids were taller than my mom. My son is kinda the same way. His father is 6'3" and he's 15 right now and is already 6'2". If anything don't worry about height so much because if a person can't like you for who you are then they really aren't the right person for you ya know?
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Brandon

Quote from: Blue Senpai on July 04, 2014, 02:38:30 PM
These weren't preferences, she will really NOT date dark sinned people at all. It's not a preference since there's no chance of her dating my friend or anyone with the same skin complexion, she made that perfectly clear.

That is a preference as I said I pefer short lightskin girls and white girls, how is that not a preference, I have a friend who only likes lightskins its what she pefers.
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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FTMKyle

I've met plenty of cis gender men who are short and from every ethnic background. It's really no big deal. You might get hassled for being a short guy, but at least people are seeing you as a guy. right. But I guess this is not my topic since I'm like 5'9"-5'10". My dad is 6'1" and my mom is 5'10". So I've never had to deal with the height issue most ftms have. I do get hassled at work for being shorter than a couple of the guys there, but honestly I am taller than or as tall as most men at work. The only time my height bugged me was when a cis gendered woman who was like 6'3' started to poke fun at me. Then I started calling her jolly the green giant. But it's mostly good fun.   :)
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