The official "Anything goes" topic Well, within reason!

[Jessica Merriman]

The purpose of this topic is just to let off steam, find comfort after a long days work and/or solace with each other without the possibility of getting off topic. Just remember to be polite and let the conversation flow. Have a serious conversation, poke each other (within TOS please), laugh, cry, vent, seek advice or just join in when you feel like it. Please remember though to keep things like sexuality on the proper thread. Play nice and we will see how it goes. Always remember our TOS and things will be just fine.

If something serious comes up please wait until it is resolved before lighter post's are made. Arguments will result in this being locked.

Now, what's on your minds? 

[radsi]

I want to know why my feet are randomly growing

Oh and why a certain american keeps picking on me and keep trying to dress me in pink! haha 

[Umiko]

is it normal to be confused on my dating preference? i mean once i start hrt its going to get worse 

[Jessica Merriman]

I want to know why my feet are randomly growing
Your English! *giggles*

VBTO, some believe HRT only allows your real preferences to come out. So in your case maybe it will just clarify that preference.

[radsi]

is it normal to be confused on my dating preference? i mean once i start hrt its going to get worse 

I say why limit ureself to a portion of the population keep an open mind and date whoever u have fun with, like, are attracted to and get on with whoever that may be. Just go with the flow and enjoy it 

[radsi]

I may be English but you are still Jessica MEANIEman lol

[Umiko]

VBTO, some believe HRT only allows your real preferences to come out. So in your case maybe it will just clarify that preference.

ah. both my therapist and my psychiatrist both said that might not change  oh well, i'm already a confused mess. may as well not even try anymore. toast to the bi life 

[Jessica Merriman]

I may be English but you are still Jessica MEANIEman lol

Just a simple separatist from the empire! *giggle* 

VBTO-Radsi has a good point. Why limit yourself or feel uneasy with anyone who attracts you? Love is love and attraction is attraction.

[Umiko]

Just a simple separatist from the empire! *giggle* 

VBTO-Radsi has a good point. Why limit yourself or feel uneasy with anyone who attracts you? Love is love and attraction is attraction.

thats my point, love and attraction are 2 separate things  but ya'll are right. i can care less for sex so thats why i raise my glass to the bi life    with my hair longer, i'm starting to look a little more andro xD

[Jessica Merriman]

Just leave the doubts and guilt over these thing in a box and throw them in the ocean. Transition is hard enough by itself to worry about other things too much. Just let your heart soar and see where it lands.

[Edge]

Bi/pan people ftw! That said, I think it's totally normal and ok to be confused about your dating preference. We live in a society where a lot of people want people to pick one or the other and, often, it just doesn't work like that.

Speaking of attraction, my bf is coming over tuesday and I want to impress him (or whatever the word is for make him think "this guy is fantastic and I'm so glad we're together") while being myself, of course. I also need to relax and not be so awkward. Anyone have any advice?

[Jessica Merriman]

Just be the "Edge" we have all come to love and admire!  Anything in particular such as presentation?

[Edge]

Sure and how to relax.

[Jessica Merriman]

Sure and how to relax.

I would go with what you are comfortable wearing and not overdo it. Really hard for me to say because every place on the planet has different styles and fashions. Sorry I can't help more than that right now.

As far as relaxation at what point is your relationship? New or familiar?

[Edge]

As far as relaxation at what point is your relationship? New or familiar?

New

[Sheala]

        I think my hands have shrank..... I fit in a size smaller glove at work now..... wth...... well the good thing they look mor feminine now lol

[Jessica Merriman]

I have to say relaxation will be very hard. Just be you and try not to think much about it. Find an activity you both like and let him relax himself and distract the two of you until the guards are down. After a while you should be able to do the same. It won't be easy though I admit. Sorry I have no more wisdom on this. My own dating life is uh, non existent. I just know that the longer people are around each other the more relaxed they become. It took about three hours in the ambulance with a new partner to feel at ease and trusting.

[Jessica Merriman]

      I think my hands have shrank..... I fit in a size smaller glove at work now..... wth...... well the good thing they look mor feminine now lol

OMG! That is so great Sheala!! Have you done your nails yet girl?

[Umiko]

walking on sharp rocks barefoot ftw! xD hahahah! oh oh oh, i'm starting to look more like my twin sister! YOLO to that! xD

[Sheala]

OMG! That is so great Sheala!! Have you done your nails yet girl?

beside just painting them no  I want to so bad but its not authorised at my job.......