What did you use to calm it?
What I have is what I get. My hair won't cooperate with anything you do to it. It's like it's a wig with artificial hair. I'm lucky, because what you see is what happens when I get out of the shower and air dry lol. If I want curls (won't stay for more than a few hours unless you use a LOT of gel) or an updo (very slick hair, will come undone without a million hairpins), I'm screwed. But I've fought with lots of peoples hair, I know the struggle.