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Do we grow old gracefully?

Started by Brenda E, July 11, 2014, 05:01:56 AM

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missymay

Quote from: Jane's Sweet Refrain on July 11, 2014, 05:43:07 AM
I'm not sure whether there is a difference between the way transwomen and ciswomen appear as they age. Whether we grow old gracefully or not, I would think is not a matter of appearance, but of attitude. And that, trans or cis, is probably subject to the individual. (For the record, growing old? Kicking and screaming! Kicking and screaming, I tell you! ;))

I will be kicking and screaming as well, lol  :)
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androgynouspainter26

I actually do know a few trans women who started earlier on-in their twenties, mostly-and they all look amazing.  This might be a fluke, or because we tend to worry more about our skin, etc...but it gives me hope.
My gender problem isn't half as bad as society's.  Although mine is still pretty bad.
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Jill F

I don't care how I grow old.  I just hope I get to do so now.
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antonia

I've thought about this a bit and we do have a couple of things going for us that might help us look younger than our cis sisters.

Our breast development starts later in life, gravity hasn't had as much time to take it's toll
We tend to have stronger bone structures, less chance of skeletal issues and osteoporoses
We do not have to deal with complications associated with childbirth
We start wearing make-up later, less clogging of pours, etc
We generally do hair removal and keep it up as we age
We are more aware of staying fit and exercising
More experience and acceptance of wearing wigs rather than showing thinning hair
Our hormone levels don't drop, we can keep taking Estrogen

I think we might actually be fairly well off as far as growing older goes....
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Handy

Well, I'm going to try and grow old gracefully, but if my youth thus far has been any indication I'm unlikely to succeed XD
On HRT 2 years - Full time 1/7/14
EE-Comp Engineering Student and Cartoon Lover
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Allyda

Quote from: missymay on July 11, 2014, 08:33:33 PM
I will be kicking and screaming as well, lol  :)
Er, Yea, this is me, kicking and screaming. I'll do my best to look as good as I can for as long as I can. However I do still feel genes do play a part in anyone's lifespan cis or trans.

I'm approaching 50 this year, and I hope for another 50.

Best wishes.

Ally :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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herekitten

--  Antonia,  I agree with your observation. I have 8 sisters. Three of which are older than me. I am now in my mid-50s. Everyone who meets us always think that I am among the younger of the sisters -- even younger than the next to youngest...  I feel that our ability to continue estrogen intake is what 'preserves' us to a degree or at least enhances the ability not to age physically.  If you add exercise, good diet, and good skincare, you are far ahead of the aging game. Case in point -- My friend, who is post-op, does not care about skin care, diet, no exercise at all and rarely takes her estrogen. I've been asked if she is my older sister and a couple of times if she was an older relative.  She is one year younger than me. So I hypothesized that estrogen plays a big role in our youthful looks.
It is the lives we encounter that make life worth living. - Guy De Maupassant
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monica93304

When I'm out and about socializing the topic of age comes up quite frequently.  People never guess my age, and usually tell me that I'm lying.  I'll be 44 in September.  I can tell you that the hormones have helped my skin, as well as the laser I've had done. 

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Veronica M

Quote from: Cindy on July 11, 2014, 02:21:32 PM
I am and shall grow old dis grace fully

I'm with you Cindy... I have to catch up on a lot of naughty... (Grin) Oh, I forgot to mention I got my WPATH letter for HRT... Look out ladies... (Snicker)
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Allyda

Quote from: Veronica M on July 12, 2014, 12:29:26 PM
I'm with you Cindy... I have to catch up on a lot of naughty... (Grin) Oh, I forgot to mention I got my WPATH letter for HRT... Look out ladies... (Snicker)
I'm very happy for you that you got your letter! I wish you the very best as you begin your journey.

Ally :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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peky

Since starting HRT my skin looks healthier and my face and body look youthful.

People who do not know me guess my age 15-20 years younger...
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monica93304

Quote from: peky on July 12, 2014, 01:32:53 PM
Since starting HRT my skin looks healthier and my face and body look youthful.

People who do not know me guess my age 15-20 years younger...

When people tell me I look 25 or 30, I buy them a drink.
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aleon515

I know this was asked about trans women, but there is a VERY good film called "Growing Old Gracefully". I saw this at Philly trans health. Very good film (though not everyone interviewed was even over 50-- but some were). It would be good for LGBT centers and so on to have this one.

As for me I'm not really old but I'm way over 40. :)

--Jay
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immortal gypsy

Cis or trans jt is a bit of a crap shoot. Of course the 'E' helps but genetics,  do you drink,  sun exposure how much effort you put into looking after your skin it all helps. So only time will tell

Now how will I age gratefully?  well growing old is mandatory, growing up. By Cthulu no way ever!
Do not fear those who have nothing left to lose, fear those who are prepared to lose it all

Si vis bellum, parra pacem
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Veronica M

Quote from: Allyda on July 12, 2014, 01:18:39 PM
I'm very happy for you that you got your letter! I wish you the very best as you begin your journey.

Ally :icon_flower:


Thank you Ally,
Actually the Journey has been ongoing since last February, but I wanted to lose some weight before starting HRT. But yes I am quite excited indeed. I have since come out to most everyone, and even at this point am out so to speak, but all said I am looking forward to the changes. I have kept this in a box for forty plus years so I am a late bloomer, but that's okay too...
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Allyda

Quote from: Veronica M on July 12, 2014, 02:07:30 PM
Thank you Ally,
Actually the Journey has been ongoing since last February, but I wanted to lose some weight before starting HRT. But yes I am quite excited indeed. I have since come out to most everyone, and even at this point am out so to speak, but all said I am looking forward to the changes. I have kept this in a box for forty plus years so I am a late bloomer, but that's okay too...
Well, you wouldn't know it by looking at me but I'm 49 and changing quite well. After only a little over 6 months I fill an A cup nicely (yes, they look bigger on me because I'm tiny), my facial features have softened. I'm very thankful as these changes are ongoing.

Just wait, 6 months from now you'll be making a post similar to this one, lol!

Again, best wishes with your hrt as you continue your journey.

Ally :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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