Depressed and deeply hurt...(may have triggers)

[nikkie]

And just a fun story for you:

My mother would take me shopping and I will honestly disappear in the store. I usually told her that I had to go to the bathroom and just start shopping around. I would find everything I wanted and then find my mother in the women's section. Her face was usually priceless. She was the type to never yell in public so I kind of would just stick what I found in the cart and literally take everything she found out of the cart and look at her and say okay I'm done lets go checkout. Eventually she gave up and just bought everything I wanted. Mind you she had a super angry face, but I really didn't care. lol

[Hex]

If I was in that situation I would dig my heels into the ground and not budge. I was a pretty defiant kid and got into a lot of debates and arguments with my dad especially because I am so stubborn but even if we managed to come to a compromise it was better than bending over and taking it.
>> Not a suggestion but I would refuse to wear any clothes at all until my parents caved lol. Just walk around naked or in the least amount of clothing possible until I got my correct clothing back. Or if she takes you shopping just disappear or don't try anything on.

Of course the less stubborn mule options are also nice. Try explaining to them that maybe a chance with a gender specialist might be what's needed. Give them the benefit of the doubt that they may be right, even though they aren't ect. Parents always love talking to professionals for some reason 0.o

[melanie maritz]

Damn, that is so horrible. I kind of cried a little bit when I read this topic. I can only imagen how bad that must have felt that they showed you how it could have been if they just accepted you, and then just not do it anymore, it sounds like a bad dream.

I am very sorry that this has happened to you I hope they soon realise that you are not just going through a phase and that they stop denying the reality.

[AquaWhatever]

Well thanks everyone for the support and nice comments.. It really helps during this depressing time.
It's good to know there's people out there who accepts the real me.

[ana1111]

*hugs* Im really sorry to hear that  >:(my parents used to be horrible like this too but there finally coming around a lot and are paying for my hormones and driving me to trans support groups! Trust me they used to be horrible so believe me there is still hope just be very insistant about it! Don't give up yet though! Pm me if you need to talk to someone whos been in a similar situation and understands.