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Started by kariann330, July 28, 2014, 05:08:31 PM

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kariann330

So I have been working on my voice as much as possible recently. Well I had....let's say an encounter....last night. The guy knows about my being transgender and is more than fine with it. Well this morning I get a text saying that he didn't notice much of a change in my voice at all....until the big O happened. He said he couldn't even tell I was struggling with my voice at all and that it sounded 100% female.

So does anyone know of any advice that can get my voice out of the bedroom and into day to day life?
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androgynouspainter26

Well, what I did was just gradually raise my pitch over the course of a few years or so...I sort of did it before/right as I was hitting puberty, but it did me a lot of good.  Oddly enough, I was actually emulating Chris Colfer on glee-who knew something good could actually come of that show?  Once you get your pitch up there, focus on finding a more natural timbre-don't be nasal and don't be entirely chest-y either.  Focus on using the uppermost range of your chest register, but don't stay only in the upper range.  Focus on increasing the range you use when you speak.  I found that I actually had to go down in pitch once I actually transitioned...that's all I can say.  I've gotten great results without any professional help whatsoever-my voice passes for cis over the phone even with other trans* people, so I don't know if I was just lucky-but either way, best of luck to you.
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Alainaluvsu

Wait, so I'm understanding this correctly... your voice passed to somebody, and you're still asking for advice? I don't guess I'm following what keeps your voice in the bedroom and out of your day to day life.

I can say, the number one big huge deal with getting a passable voice is not pitch, inflection or whatever. It's getting the vibration out of your chest and vocal cords and into your mouth. If you can't do that, you're going to sound phony.
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kariann330

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on July 28, 2014, 05:31:16 PM
Wait, so I'm understanding this correctly... your voice passed to somebody, and you're still asking for advice? I don't guess I'm following what keeps your voice in the bedroom and out of your day to day life.

I can say, the number one big huge deal with getting a passable voice is not pitch, inflection or whatever. It's getting the vibration out of your chest and vocal cords and into your mouth. If you can't do that, you're going to sound phony.

Well it only passed during that big O....so unless I'm constantly getting my jollies off my voice doesn't pass which is why I was asking for some advice
I need a hero to save me now, i need a hero to save my life, a hero will save me just in time!!

"Don't bother running from a sniper, you will just die tired and sweaty"

Longest shot 2500yards, Savage 110BA 338 Lapua magnum, 15X scope, 10X magnifier. Bipod.
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androgynouspainter26

I had no idea that, er, a release can have that effect.
My gender problem isn't half as bad as society's.  Although mine is still pretty bad.
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Alainaluvsu

That means you need to relax your voice. Don't emphasize your pitch or anything of that nature.
To dream of the person you would like to be is to waste the person you are.



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