In the order of dysphoria, your 5 most hated secondary male charactersistics

[Hannahh]

1. Hair face,
2. Adam Apple,
3. Face (no ffs at this time)
4. Genital
5. Shape body

Have a great day,
Hannah

[luna nyan]

1.  Voice - I miss my soprano voice...
2.  Height - the females in my family are midgets.
3.  Shoulders
4.  Hands
5.  Face

Of the above... Only face is somewhat readily fixed...

[GenTechJ]

1. Body shape
2. Facial hair
3. Body hair
4. Adam's apple
5. Voice

EDIT: The masculine body structure can be made feminine, but yeah, my voice bothers me

[Carlita]

1. Height, but being just a shade under 6ft would be manageable, if it weren't for things like ...
2. Feet ... UK size 11: aaarrrggghhh!!!
3. Shoulders: not broad for a man, but broader than my hips
4. Too much hair ... on my face
5. Too little hair ... on my head

On the other hand, I have no visible Adam's apple (bizarre because I have a deep voice), slender wrists and ankles, feminine eyes and mouth and a sticking-out backside. So it could have been a lot, lot worse! 🙂

[Emjay]

I am getting it scythed with extreme prejudice before the end of the year.

Scythed?!  Oh my!  (I don't blame you though) 

Mine are

1.  Radio deejay voice, sometimes I feel like I need to just learn sign language
2. Stubble!  22 hours of electrolysis so far, slowly but surely getting there but yeah it's a glacially slow process. 
3.  Being called "young man", "man", whatever... repeatedly at work (full time is coming soon but not there yet)
4.  Body hair, HRT is slowly taking care of that!
5.  Voice....Yeah, twice because it REALLY bugs me out.  🙁

[zog]

1. Genitals
2. Facial hair
3. Belly
4. Broad shoulders
5. Body hair

I do have a very, very male voice, but that doesn't bother me that much since I'm starting voice therapy in just a couple of months. Other things are being corrected by hormones pretty fast. I should also be getting to face lasering pretty soon, but I predict the voice thing will be much easier a process for me.

[JenSquid]

The first three a lot more so than the latter two.

1. Facial hair/stubble
2. Stomach
3. Male (square) hairline
4. Brow. I don't know if it's bossing (supposedly mine's not too bad) or over developed scowling muscles 
5. Adam's apple. It's mostly hidden behind all the fat on my neck, but I still never liked it.

Before I started shaving it off, chest hair would have been way up there (somewhere between 2 and 3). I've felt a lot better with it gone. Surprisingly, arm and leg hair doesn't bother me that much.

[EchelonHunt]

1. Voice
2. Body hair
3. Body odour
4. Heightened sex drive
5. Voice too like AmazinglyAutumn, it bothers me too!

[Jaime R D]

My adam's apple
My skinny legs
brow ridge
ugly manly nose
facial hair

[FalseHybridPrincess]

1.Shoulders
2.body hair
3.muscles
4.voice
5.masculine face characteristics

[Joanna Dark]

1. Facial Hair

2. Nose

3. neck muscles

4. acne scars

5. Hair that rearranges itself into male style

*Penis is obvious

Type five things I like since HRT:

1. Ability to get the love of my life, which wouldn't have happened without HRT

2. Fatty legs

3. Much bigger boobs from a B to a D

4. Loss of weight from 140 to 115

5. Butt increasing in size (Or as my BF says: ur getting a fattie lol)

[crystals]

1] the "sausage"
2] facial and bodily hair
3] not girl skin
4]not having boobs
5]not looking like a girl in general
most of the things said by others dont pose a problem for me im not tall or have a mass and natural female-ish hips

[Eris]

Body Hair
Adams apple
Voice
Stomach
Ribs: I'm self conscious about how pronounced mine are 🙁

[Miyuki]

1. Facial/Body Hair (making good progress with professional laser on the face and Tria on the body hair, but it's such a long process...)
2. Male Bone Structure (I hate these damn broad shoulders so much...)
3. Face (it's sort of semi-passable depending on the angle, lighting conditions, etc., but it's still too masculine for my taste)
4. Fat Distribution (carrying all my fat on my stomach makes me feel very uncomfortable)
5. Voice (would be higher except that I can actually manage a passable voice most of the time)

Ironically, hair loss was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back for me, but after years of using minoxidil it has actually come back to the point where it's not even in my top 5 dysphoria triggers. I'd still like to get a hairline advancement to have a more feminine hairline though. Also, I'm surprised to see so many people putting face/body hair high up on their lists. Somehow I thought I was the only one who considered body hair to be their biggest dysphoria trigger.

[Autumn]

1. Nose
2. Voice
3. Shoulders
4. Chest
5. Hips

[Allyda]

Since I already had a somewhat feminine body shape, long legs, short torso, small hands and feet, and since it was mentioned, a feminine digit ratio, well, let's see. In order of dysphoria #1 being the worse:

1. Between my legs lies an abomination of the highest order.
1a. Voice.
2. Remaining gray facial hair.
3. My baby bump belly.
4. Face: scars from accident, nose, brows, and cheeks, and facial mouth muscle atrophy.
5. Bad teeth from accident.
6. My age of 49, and the lost years I missed out on.

I'm only 7 months in on my hrt, so many of these issues may still correct themselves. The ones that do not, will be addressed with FFS after my SRS and VFS.

Allie

[Cris Zoe]

1. facial hair - doing electro now
2. body shape - wide shoulders, narrow hips - hoping hrt will give me a bigger booty
3. belly - exercising to lose weight
4. voice - haven't done anything about this
5. body hair - shaving arms and legs, would like to do laser on my legs, but my money is being spent on electrolysis on the face which is much more important

[Jenna Marie]

1. Huge forehead
2. Brow bossing
3. Broad rib cage

...that's it, actually. I *hated* my square chin, big shoulders, and big feet but HRT took care of those.  The voice, facial hair (UGH #1 by far back then), and "dongle" I fixed by other methods, and I just came to terms with my height (5'8") and stopped feeling freakishly tall as the rest of my body changed.

I don't like thinking about how I still have a male skeleton/bone structure, but I can ignore that 99% of the time now.

[Bols]

Hmmm....

Brow
Facial hair
Voice
Adam's apple
Body hair.

Hips would be close fifth too.

[Evelyn K]

Most dysphoria pre-transition:
1. Hair. (Starting to go bald was the most traumatic experience of my life.)
2. Voice. (Losing my soprano singing voice was the second most traumatic experience of my life, and I hate that I can't fully express myself vocally in the same way that cis-women can.)
3. Body hair (thank God that's gone.)
4. Muscle mass (thank God that's gone too.)
5. Wide shoulders / narrow hips

Most dysphoria now:
1. Hair (Grow faster, damn it!!! And fill in on the corners of the hairline and the back of my head, damn it!!!)
2. Voice
3. Wide shoulders / narrow hips
4. Genitals
5. Facial features. (Brow bossing / square jaw / big chin / nose)

Carrie about what month in until you've noticed discernible muscle loss?