I am sorry to report that my consult on Nov 7 with Dr. BL and Dr. Zhao wasn't very positive.
For starter, I waited 25 minutes in the reception before anyone saw me. I arrived 15 minutes early as instructed in the email. I brought all my forms pre-filled out. I even "checked-in" online by filling out my medical history online. When I gave my forms to the young lady at the reception desk all pre-filled out, she said, "You have no idea how much time you've saved." I responded "well I read the instructions in the email."
As I noticed that my waiting time was getting close to 30 mins, I mentioned to the young lady in the front desk that I had an appointment with Dr. Zhao in 5 mins and hadn't seen Dr. BL yet. She said, "I know".
My consultation lasted only a few minutes. It went as follows: a Nurse Practitioner came in and asked me series of questions. He was very friendly. He then left and first brought in Dr. Zhao. He spoke with me for a few minutes then left and brought in Dr B L. She spoke very fast and I got the sense that they had another appointment immediately afterwards.
She asked me to put on a medical gown (left the room so I could change). She returned with the Nurse Practitioner and after examining me said, "I can get 5 1/2 - 6 in depth".
I wonder if my experience was a mixed bag because I didn't have my letters with me from a licensed therapist. I figured that I would bring them once I had decided on a doctor. I mentioned that I met with Mt Sinai Center for Transgender Medicine and was evaluated by a therapist, so I do have letters.
When asked about a caregiver I said I would have to discuss with my ex-bf. Maybe I gave the the impression that I wasn't serious? I don't know. Maybe it was a busy day at her office? It was election day in NYC.
When meeting with a doctor, do you ladies have the entire Letter of Support or do you meet to learn more about the doctor and get a feel for him/her?
Just asking because I want to consider other doctors and want the meeting to be more productive by better preparation from me, if that is what was missing.