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Started by Emily1996, August 06, 2014, 02:50:38 PM

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Emily1996

Hello :3 Ok so I looked for info about laser hair removal.. My hairs are black and so are the ones on my face, and from what I understand laser works best on darker hair... So is it good to start laser even if you're not on HRT?

Plus I'm not 18 yet, and I don't grow a lot of hair much of them are on my chin and upper lip and only if I stay for a week or more they start to grow in other places, but I can shave like once or 2 a week and be fine. My skin is very sensitive and I don't shave a lot because it becomes red easily and I cut myself often (maybe it's because I'm not good at shaving lol)

Can I do this without my parents knowing? D:

I don't have a lot of money so I think that laser is better for me because I think it costs less than electro, but it has more complications, right? I don't want any D: it will be terrible to have discoloration and stuff like that.
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Sabine

The earlier you start, the better -- if you know that's what you want.  You need not wait for HRT, although spiro will reduce or suppress beard growth to some extent, and body hair more. Plenty of men get laser. And yes, it's ideal with black hair. I think if you do it before HRT you may have a better chance of getting everything.

I don't know if as a minor you need parent's consent. That may well be a state requirement for all I know. Wherever you get it, and ideally there should be a doctor associated with the place in some way, you will have to fill out forms stating your age and acknowledging you understand the side effects.  They don't want liability, and with a minor there may be other issues.

It's not easy to conceal when it is done as you get a burn that may last a few hours. It also requires multiple treatments based on your hair growth pattern and speed. However, I did get it done for about a year or so without my SO knowing.
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JesseG

Kinda difficult to hide. For the first few hours there's some redness and bumpiness ("cottage cheese" skin). That smoothes over on the first day, but you remain swollen for a day or two, depending on laser strength. Your parents may pick up on that.

If your skin is sensitive, get the clinic to do a test shot first. My clinic just did a couple zaps under my chin, testing two different lasers - in case there was some unexpected consequences, those spots wouldn't be disfiguring. When they cleared up, I came back 3 days later to do the whole face.

I heard people recommend starting HRT before laser for the simple economic reason that you'll have less lasering to do, because the hormones will have reduced your hair density / thickness.

Also, yeah, if you're under 18 and cost is a factor, this will suck. Multiple treatments are needed, no question. Those of us that with fierce 'adult' shadows need like 10+ treatments. Talk to other trans* people in your city to get a recommendation on an effective clinic. Some laser places are bad, I hear about people going over and over with little effect - just a money pit.
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Emily1996

Quote from: JesseG on August 06, 2014, 07:07:32 PM
Kinda difficult to hide. For the first few hours there's some redness and bumpiness ("cottage cheese" skin). That smoothes over on the first day, but you remain swollen for a day or two, depending on laser strength. Your parents may pick up on that.

If your skin is sensitive, get the clinic to do a test shot first. My clinic just did a couple zaps under my chin, testing two different lasers - in case there was some unexpected consequences, those spots wouldn't be disfiguring. When they cleared up, I came back 3 days later to do the whole face.

I heard people recommend starting HRT before laser for the simple economic reason that you'll have less lasering to do, because the hormones will have reduced your hair density / thickness.

Also, yeah, if you're under 18 and cost is a factor, this will suck. Multiple treatments are needed, no question. Those of us that with fierce 'adult' shadows need like 10+ treatments. Talk to other trans* people in your city to get a recommendation on an effective clinic. Some laser places are bad, I hear about people going over and over with little effect - just a money pit.

I only live with my mom and she's never home... I can hide everything from her in that sense...
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Emily1996

Quote from: Emily29 on August 06, 2014, 07:51:33 PM
I only live with my mom and she's never home... I can hide everything from her in that sense... Usually what's the cost?
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Sabine

Emily, I did some digging, and I am fairly sure that if you are a minor you'll need a parent's written consent, and in some places they need to be present for the first session.  Laser hair removal is painful (like 100s of rubber band snaps at your skin) and requires multiple sessions. Cost varies around the country. Where I am, it can be $250 for a full face session, but I'm probably in a pricey area.
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Emily1996

Quote from: Sabine on August 06, 2014, 08:34:30 PM
Emily, I did some digging, and I am fairly sure that if you are a minor you'll need a parent's written consent, and in some places they need to be present for the first session.  Laser hair removal is painful (like 100s of rubber band snaps at your skin) and requires multiple sessions. Cost varies around the country. Where I am, it can be $250 for a full face session, but I'm probably in a pricey area.

Well ok then I guess I need to wait some months D: damn that's a lot! Where do you live? Is it in the U.S.? I live in NY so maybe it is expensive here too, and I wanted to move to NYC after I graduate high school, and everything is expensive there... I guess I need to spare some money for later lol How many sessions did you need? Do you need to go back there? Is electrolysis less painful?
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TaoRaven

Go to an actual Dermatologist. It is worth it, believe me.

It was $300 per session here in Colorado.

I had pretty good luck hiding the "sun burn" effect with Dermablend foundation. The little bumps were still visible, but only in good lighting and if someone was really looking.

Fair warning. It hurts. A lot. But it is SOOOOOO worth it.
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JesseG

Quote from: Emily29 on August 06, 2014, 07:54:13 PM
Usually what's the cost?

Up in Canada I'm paying $200 per session (full face = beard + mustache + neck). Not covered by insurance either, not even our fabled public healthcare.

Takes 20+ min, and the sessions are spaced 7-8 weeks apart.
It's almost everything I need.
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do." - Mark Twain
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