I am nowhere... Well, I can't exactly say that. I am well beyond the questioning phase (well, I think we all still have some questioning, right?), but I'm stuck there, as pretty much everything in my life has come to a pause because of medical issues.
However, whatever small amount of independence I have been allowed, I have seized. I wear (somewhat) subtly women's versions of everything for my uniform at work, and I have supportive friends.
Still, kind of sad to say that's all I could have managed nine years after joining this forum.