This is not america, unless Canada is america (its north america though), and since I've got much worse and more dangerous creeps harassing me right off my front door, I'm not too worried what 13 year old boys can do on the internet (especially since I can hack them into the ground if I have too >

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Since people thinking they will be unpassable ever is one of the big issues, I think that before and after can help dispell this notion. I know that seeing some before and after photos on the internet helped me take the plunge; I saw that my fears may have been unfounded and they were (I had to hunt them down though since they are few and far between).
If anyone takes these before and after photos as some beauty, contest I don't see how this would be a problem with me or anyone else who does the same, instead of with those who feel this way.
If you want to be stealth, hey, no problem, but let me as open as I want to be, its my choice and you don't have to tune in.