Quote from: Wild-Eyed on April 25, 2016, 07:13:06 PM
Nervous about this one. Here we go. People elsewhere tell me I pass, but I always get female endearments from shopkeepers etc., even when I don't speak. I don't yet own a binder or many male clothes.
You look pretty masculine androgynous. There's nothing feminine about your style at all. My guess is, because women dressing masculinely is relatively common and they tend to look more androgynous, if someone sees a person who is androgynous, they could be more likely to guess female. Especially if you have a feminine or androgynous voice. Especially if you're talking with a woman. They pick up on these things.
If passing is really important to you, I'd suggest going with an ultra-classic. Think white t-shirt under a button-down with dark blue jeans and an ivy league or side-part haircut, no jewelry, maybe a watch. You know, that kinda thing. Or just one of those things that you like.
Some people don't like the idea of trying to "pass", but I don't see a problem with it if it's something a person /wants/ to do vs feels they /have/ to do. I wanted to - it made me feel happier and more confident. But that's not gonna be for everyone and no one should actually need to do that. But that's another story =p and I digress.
Really, I think you could just correct people. Maybe look surprised and say "Woah, no I'm a guy." I kinda doubt anyone would argue with you on that. Maybe try it with the checkout lady at Walmart or Starbucks, see what happens and take it from there.
That's my take on it, anywho. And FWIW, you look awesome dude and I really dig that haircut. I wish I could get away with a longer cut but I look like a dork if I do lol.
