What is your relationship status. Mtf only please

[Hikari]

Congratulations Hikari! Maybe she is the one!

Happy Holidays!
Ally

Oh thanks, I don't think I noticed that before, I mean it is kinda nice dating someone who like gets what I am going thru and is willing to work around my limitations. I am hoping it works for us for the long run.

[Carrie Liz]

Other, because the option that would describe me is "single and don't even know what my own sexual orientation is."

Transition REALLY twisted things up in my head in terms of figuring out who I'd want to date. I'm now attracted to men, but still attracted to women, but not sure if my attraction toward women is just jealousy, but noticing that I can't really imagine being in a relationship with a man, but worries that dating a woman will make me feel too "mannish," and on top of all of that is still trying to figure out whether I want SRS or not, and can't even decide on which fantasy combination of my genitals and a partner's genitals feels the most "right" to me. Screw it. It's a complete and total mess, and I honestly have no freaking clue.

[tuuliu]

I'm now attracted to men, but still attracted to women, but not sure if my attraction toward women is just jealousy, but noticing that I can't really imagine being in a relationship with a man, but worries that dating a woman will make me feel too "mannish," and on top of all of that is still trying to figure out whether I want SRS or not, and can't even decide on which fantasy combination of my genitals and a partner's genitals feels the most "right" to me.

I identify with you. It's scary. I've been exploring my feelings about my downstairs and sometimes I feel I can fantasize and feel good about sex, but other times I just feel so numb and frightened that I don't know if I can be intimate with anyone. It's like, I don't wanna do something I don't feel comfortable doing but there seems to be little that I do feel comfortable with. Mehhhhhhh. I don't like the idea of anal anyway because it feels messy and painful, but I also wouldn't want to use my uhh I don't even know what to call it anymore. A confused bisexual trans female bottom is the closest I've come to.

[twistedpixie]

Other:

I'm single and I would like to date a female, but whether they are cis or trans is unimportant to me.

[serenityfaith]

I'm in a relationship with an incredible loving cis man, it will be two years March 15th!! His name is Jason, Hes 6'5 tatted and has the sexiest beard!! I'm his world, and I am TRULY blessed to have a man that loves me to no end!! Looking at this poll really showed me how lucky I am!!!

[StrykerXIII]

It's surprising to see the number of us that are in long-term commitments with cisfemales. Personally, I consider myself pansexual. It was pure chance that my lovey was female...we met online, after all. She could have been anyone. All I really cared about is that she was just...wonderful. Just absolutely wonderful. Though, her being female did admittedly make it much easier to introduce her to my parents...hahaha.

[cindianna_jones]

Ok here is the MTF chance to show where you are in your relationship status.

No pressure just i love demographics and wanting to see where the community is.

You can change you vote at any time if your status changes.

Comments welcome

I've been married for 22 years and on our anniversary, my hubby announced he had found someone else and wanted a divorce. He expected ME to do the work. Not an unanticipated request. He always asked me to take care of legal, financial, and tax issues. In any cases, we're going through the worst experience of my life.

I don't know that I'll ever be able to fall in love with a man again. I mean it took me two years to get to love him and quite honestly, I considered him more like my best friend than lover. I never denied him anything and I can fake an orgasm just like anyone else. But those things do end. People know.

So, I'm seeing a therapist and she suggested that I look into other options. I may decide to stay single for the rest of my life. Perhaps I'll find a marvelous woman. Who knows. I will not plan or hope. If it happens, it will happen.

[Newgirl Dani]

Interesting question and one I've thought some on, but not really too much.  I'm single and would like to meet a cis female that would like to (as me) have a monogamous relationship yet one in which we can have our own homes, our own space, and our own lives.  Is this possible, well I suppose anything is, is it probable that may be another question entirely.  My preference for being alone is fairly strong, although I am now beginning to imagine how nice a permanent closeness would be.

The other side of that proverbial coin is something entirely different.  I have tried to imagine what it may be like to form a relationship with another mtf.  The jury is still out on that one  .   Dani

[Muffinheart]

Met a great guy off a dating site, we instantly clicked. Within six months we bought a house together and happily living together almost 1.5 years now. He proposed to me about a month ago. No date set, sometime in 2015.

[serenityfaith]

Met a great guy off a dating site, we instantly clicked. Within six months we bought a house together and happily living together almost 1.5 years now. He proposed to me about a month ago. No date set, sometime in 2015.

OMGGGG!!!! CONGRATULATIONS DARLING!!!! YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE A GORGEOUS BRIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Lara1969]

I am married to a CIS female and I date CIS males. I am now more interested in males. My wife is also only interested in males. So we are both straigth. Sunds crazy?

Lara

[Muffinheart]

OMGGGG!!!! CONGRATULATIONS DARLING!!!! YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE A GORGEOUS BRIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Haha thanks, but I won't be a bride in the traditional sense. I could never go for the white gown thing.
Nope, my dream wedding right now is going to Vegas, getting married by Elvis lol

[Jayne]

I ticked other, i'm single & would like to date a man. I didn't tick either option for dating cis/trans man because a mans a man to me.
Maybe the poll could be updated to reflect this?

[pretty pauline]

Just found this poll, very interesting, the high number of mtf that are married to cis females 53 and the very low number married to cis males, only 5, I'm married to a cis male, so I ticked accordingly, very low number, interesting.

[cindianna_jones]

My paperwork has finally been approved for my divorce with "my cis man" and I should get my first check from the settlement on the first. It is painfully small. I"m not sure how I'll make the house payment. But, for the first time in many years, I finally feel free. Free from the abuse. Free from keeping THE secret. Just free.

I'm pushing 60 (next month... much) and I find it extremely unlikely that I'll fall in love with a guy. I think lesbian is the way to go. Hey, a girl can change her mind can't she? I just have no idea on how to find other women to become friends with. I can't see myself jumping into a relationship without being friends first and the trans thing has to be out there, right up front. I live in the sticks and I know several young lesbian women, but none my age. I have no idea how or where to go. There are no gay bars, gay/lesbian bars, or anything else in a tea party county.

Any ideas?

Cindi

[Tessa James]

Congratulations for that status change Cindy!

Some of my friends have had luck with the online stuff like OK Cupid.  On line dating no longer has the stigma of years ago it seems.  It is sure nice to have choices to consider.

[cheryl reeves]

Married 27yrs in Dec.to a wonderful cis female who is trying to come to terms with my being trans..I for one can never see myself with a man for I identify as lesbian.

[Charley Bea(EmeraldP)]

Still very much single and unfortunately I do not see that changing anytime soon :/

[dr.tina]

Single,

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[cindianna_jones]

Well, now I'm proudly single and on the prowl!

I will consider anyone who is sweet to me, makes my heart throb, and can caress my face into oblivion. I am not soliciting here... just saying.

Cindi