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What is your relationship status. Mtf only please

Started by mrs izzy, August 08, 2014, 11:02:21 PM

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My MTF status is

Single and staying that way forever
19 (8.1%)
Divorced and staying that way forever
3 (1.3%)
Dating a Cis Male
11 (4.7%)
Dating a Cis Female
16 (6.8%)
Dating a Mtf
5 (2.1%)
Dating a Ftm
0 (0%)
Married to Cis Male
6 (2.6%)
Married to Cis Female
79 (33.8%)
Married to a Ftm
1 (0.4%)
Married to a Mtf
1 (0.4%)
Single and wish to date a Ftm
4 (1.7%)
Single and wish to date a Mtf
3 (1.3%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Female
14 (6%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Male
22 (9.4%)
Divorced and wish to date a Ftm
0 (0%)
Divorced and wish to date a MTF
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Female
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Male
5 (2.1%)
Other can explain.
39 (16.7%)

Total Members Voted: 194

Devlyn

Quote from: Charley Bea(EmeraldP) on November 06, 2014, 10:53:05 AM
Don't get your hopes up Devlyn XD

Probably nothing will come of it, like I said I am not sure I am interpreting them correctly,  also not sure if they are saying/hinting it just to cheer me up or make me feel better about myself. There is also a significant age gap of which while it doesn't bother them(or me too much) I worry about what others will think, especially when we meet in person.

Screw what anybody thinks! If it's in the cards, it's in the cards.
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Charley Bea(EmeraldP)

But I know people judge gapped relationships harshly and considering my looks would draw more attention than normal I am more concerned. Also don't want to ruin their life.


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Jess42

Quote from: Allyda on September 07, 2014, 05:38:22 PM

@Jess42: I truly wish I had your optimism. Believe me I'm not actively looking for romance, and haven't been for quite a while for I know I can't be intimate with anyone until after my SRS. It's just after all these years and the few times I have let opened my heart to someone who came along, it get's crushed into tiny pieces one way or another. I'm just tired of the hurt. Yea I used to believe there was someone out there for everybody, but not anymore. I've lost all hope.

Ally :icon_flower:

True love don't really care. Optimism? In no way. Don't ever lose hope Ally. OMG heatbreaks? That hon is part of the game or an unfortunateley part of the love fiasco. It may take ten years to find true love. It may knock you on your butt tomorrow. That is the wierd part. But never underestimate the power of love. When it does happen, you will know it. And he or she won't care one way or the other. I don't want to sound like a slut but GD I don't care what anyone calls me or thinks of me even. Sticks and Stones. ::) But just have fun. You don't have to sleep with them, but flirting is fun. If they can;t tell when flirting or buying you drinks, sorry. Too bad for them. I don;t buy the "Springer" crap that they didn't know. But I would never drag them on Jerry Springer either. Their secret is safe with me. :-X Plus I would never ever in my life put a guy through that even if he was an A.... Butthole in the end. :-X
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cathyrains

Exceptions to the norm do not constitute a spectrum.
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JenniR04

Married for 17 years, been living the past 4 years as separated yet under the same roof. She is unsupportive and non-accepting and were only together because of our two tween age daughters and the financial mess we've put ourselves in.

The end is coming for our paper marriage at this point and I'll have to up date to divorced, but it am okay with that as I'll be able to move on with my transition and maybe someday find the woman of my dreams who'll accept me for who I am.
"Being with no one is better than being with the wrong one. Sometimes, those who fly solo have the strongest wings!"
Hugs, Jenni R.



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FrancisAnn

Single & alone. So frustrating! I wish all my GRS surgery was behind me so I could find a nice man to be with & enjoy life.
mtF, mid 50's, always a girl since childhood, HRT (Spiro, E & Fin.) since 8-13. Hormone levels are t at 12 & estrogen at 186. Face lift & eye lid surgery in 2014. Abdominoplasty/tummy tuck & some facial surgery May, 2015. Life is good for me. Love long nails & handsome men! Hopeful for my GRS & a nice normal depth vagina maybe by late summer. 5' 8", 180 pounds, 14 dress size, size 9.5 shoes. I'm kind of an elegant woman & like everything pink, nice & neet. Love my nails & classic Revlon Red. Moving back to Florida, so excited but so much work moving
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Lady_Oracle

I get to update my answer ^_^ I'm in a relationship with a cis female. This is my first relationship with anyone ever so its quite nice to have someone after so many years alone. I didn't think I would be able to be with anyone until I had bottom surgery but I was wrong  :)
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missymay

I've been with my husband for 7 years, and it keeps getting better :)
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mrs izzy

I am totally amazed at the make up of the post to date.

Seems cis still can accept more then many give them credit.

Keep updating or adding your vote
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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tuuliu

Wow I'm surprised by the stats. I mean good for you married ladies! Just didn't see that coming. Also it looks like we're more attracted to girls than to cis/trans guys in general, like, by three times more ;D single here...

Allyda

Still single and hoping for my special someone to come into my life. No I'm not actively looking for her, I'm just hoping she'll come a long soon as I'm very lonely and have just about given up there is someone out there for me.

Ally :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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Charley Bea(EmeraldP)

FSAFA = Forever single and forever alone.

At least that is how I feel, not what I want.


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Lady_Oracle

I'd like to clarify my post up above: this is my first real life relationship ever. I would of edited the post but the time limit expired. The other relationship I was in that I mentioned in my first post was online/long distance and we never met in person..So its a bit tough for me to consider it a legit relationship, especially since it didn't last for too long.
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JulieL

Married to my cis-female wife for little over a year. I just came out to her last week, and she has been amazingly supportive so far.
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Hikari

So mine has changed now, I am dating another mtf.
15 years on Susans, where has all the time gone?
  • skype:hikari?call
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SonadoraXVX

Been with my girlfriend for a little over 4 years, she knows I'm on hrt now for 2 years running.[emoji41] Hopefully it will continue that way.
To know thyself is to be blessed, but to know others is to prevent supreme headaches
Sun Tzu said it best, "To know thyself is half the battle won, but to know yourself and the enemy, is to win 100% of the battles".



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Mariah

It's almost to dating cis male. He clearly is highly interested and with the level of communication back and forth this week it looks and feels like it's so close. I wasn't even actively searching. It just clearly dropped in my lap.
Mariah
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big kim

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stephaniec

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PhoenixGurl2016

I am single right now, though I have a couple Cis female fwb. I would like to be able to find a cis woman to whom yo date but I am not too much in a hurry as I am working on my transition.




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