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What is your relationship status. Mtf only please

Started by mrs izzy, August 08, 2014, 11:02:21 PM

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My MTF status is

Single and staying that way forever
19 (8.1%)
Divorced and staying that way forever
3 (1.3%)
Dating a Cis Male
11 (4.7%)
Dating a Cis Female
16 (6.8%)
Dating a Mtf
5 (2.1%)
Dating a Ftm
0 (0%)
Married to Cis Male
6 (2.6%)
Married to Cis Female
79 (33.8%)
Married to a Ftm
1 (0.4%)
Married to a Mtf
1 (0.4%)
Single and wish to date a Ftm
4 (1.7%)
Single and wish to date a Mtf
3 (1.3%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Female
14 (6%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Male
22 (9.4%)
Divorced and wish to date a Ftm
0 (0%)
Divorced and wish to date a MTF
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Female
3 (1.3%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Male
5 (2.1%)
Other can explain.
39 (16.7%)

Total Members Voted: 194

Jess42

Quote from: Jill F on August 09, 2014, 06:26:29 PM
Come on down!  I have a guest room...

As most of you probably know, I've been married to a ciswoman for over 20 years.  If I wasn't, I'd be open to having a relationship with anyone who was awesome.  Anything goes in my world.

Don't think I wouldn't if I was still driving cross country. ;) I remember how all the drivers used to hate California and I spent more time in that state than my home state from the LA are all the way up to Ukiah, Fortuna and Eureka on 101. I loved it, got inspected more out there than anywhere else and that was a pain but still loved it though. I was out there so much that I got to where I could go down the Grapevine with my eyes closed. Empty out on Thursday or Friday morning and dead head to the Eureka area for redwood and go right back east with it. That is what I miss the most about driving. :( Then I think about picking up in LA on Friday afternoon and having to be on the East coast on Monday morning. Then I don't miss it quite as much.
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mrs izzy

Quote from: Pikachu on August 11, 2014, 09:25:47 AM
I just wanted to say to the two MTFs who said they were single and seeking other MTFs over cis women, I think you're super awesome. It made me smile to see that.

Tyvm for your support.

Community is truly full of some great people.
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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mrs izzy

I am just a little surprised that the ftm categories are passed on wanted relationships.

Hmm interesting.
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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Shantel

Quote from: Pikachu on August 09, 2014, 09:35:03 AM
All my relationships have been with MTFs. I guess that's what happens when you only socialize with other trans people.

As an afterthought about something I've said some time back in a different thread, if I suddenly found myself single I'd prefer an MtF partner over cis as long as she was not a drama queen and her head is screwed on properly. As it is I seem to attract some of the nuttiest people without even trying. My reasoning would be based on the fact that given the right person, we would have a lot in common on many levels as I am now I am pretty sure no cis woman would be very interested anyway.
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Sarah84

I am happily married to cis-female and we have 8 months old child. She is amazing person and supportive of my transition and I hope we will stay together forever and remain a happy family.
My real name is Monika :)
HRT: 11.11.2014
SRS: 5.11.2015 with Chettawut
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Zoe the Obscure

I was in a relationship with my partner for three years, i came out as trans, and a year later she realised she was a lesbian.  Ha!  it is like a badly written script in a daytime soap opera.
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Megan Joanne

Single. And have no idea who I'd want to be with. A little attraction towards male or female, across any spectrum could lead me pretty much anywhere. Just a matter of when that person comes along that I open up and not push them away and if we click, like fall in love, well then, perhaps that will be the one I spend the rest of my life with.
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Northern Jane

I always felt that meeting a FtM would be a really good match because we BOTH know "the lay of the land" and can appreciate the struggles the other has faced. I have been around an awfully long time and the only FtM I ever met was the very first TS I met back in 1963. Oh, we had it all figured out back then - all we needed was a body swap LOL!
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Summer

came out to wife 2 months ago feared the worst to loose her and the kids .
To my suprise got full support and love from her.
Has really made my transition that bit easier.
Love you babe xx
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Jen72

I voted other because at the moment its all up in the air really and is the reason why.  Just starting really call it therapist phase not on hrt either.  The but part is sexually attracted to males but more feel closer emotionally to a female which I hear is not that odd for MTF.  In the future perhaps it will be a CIS male, FTM or who knows at this point I sure don't.  Maybe none of that I have mentioned either I have been sadly dateless all my life but I feel I will open up in many ways if I transition so where that leads only time will tell.
For every day that stings better days it brings.
For every road that ends another will begin.

From a song called "Master of the Wind"" by Man O War.

I my opinions hurt anyone it is NOT my intent.  I try to look at things in a neutral manner but we are all biased to a degree.  If I ever post anything wrong PLEASE correct me!  Human after all.
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Ltl89

Sadly, I'm single.  I'd love to start dating as I really want a relationship, but I'm scared and still not living fulltime.  In terms of relationships, I'm really only interested in pursing one with a man. 
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Shantel

Quote from: jamienicoled on August 14, 2014, 11:05:33 AM
I've been with my beautiful wife for over 28 years. We have 3 handsome boys, a lovely daughter-in-law and three darling grand-kiddos! I remarried my bride last year on the beach in NC ...it was a moment in time filled with so much love, I though my heart was going to explode...lol


So beautiful the both of you and that's what real commitment is all about!  :eusa_clap: :icon_bunch:
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Jess42

Quote from: jamienicoled on August 14, 2014, 11:05:33 AM
I've been with my beautiful wife for over 28 years. We have 3 handsome boys, a lovely daughter-in-law and three darling grand-kiddos! I remarried my bride last year on the beach in NC ...it was a moment in time filled with so much love, I though my heart was going to explode...lol


My god, have ya'll ever been in Florida? What did the two of you do, find the famed Fountain of Youth Ponce Deleon was looking for? Please let me know where it's at? Seriously though, I wish we could all be so lucky.
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mrs izzy

Quote from: jamienicoled on August 14, 2014, 11:05:33 AM
I've been with my beautiful wife for over 28 years. We have 3 handsome boys, a lovely daughter-in-law and three darling grand-kiddos! I remarried my bride last year on the beach in NC ...it was a moment in time filled with so much love, I though my heart was going to explode...lol


So wonderful beautiful couple.

I also married my husband on the beach in Delaware
As you unforgettable moment
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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iiMTF

"Other", since I have 2 choices:

1. Single, want to date cis males
2. Single, want to date ftms.

The odd part for me is I still find girls more attractive than boys... But I am not gay/lesbian.

Yay for 250 posts.
Not allowed on for awhile. Be back soon!
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Tessa James

I am fortunate enough to have been married to my darling for 40 years.  Our long term marriage has been customized to allow significant personal growth and freedom.  I expect we will likely stay together till the end.  Our shared love, romance, and intimacy are well worth our mutual efforts to continue.

Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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xponentialshift

Other for me as well.

Single and want to date someone presenting female. (Or possibly also male but not sure yet)
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latoya rayne

In a relationship with a cis male for 10 months and living together :-)  I love him
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KaylaMadison

Currently married to a cis female, but don't know for how much longer as things seem to look worse day by day as far as a romantic relationship goes. She will always be a loving supportive friend.
Came out to self/wife - 5 June 2014
Started HRT - 8 April 2015
Full Time - 29 May 2015
Currently Working on Name Change
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ArcFire2014

I'm in a relationship. My girlfriend, and I have been together for a few years. She was the first person I came out to, way before anyone else. I've been transitioning now for a few months. She's just gotten out of college, and we're going to move in together soon! I'm super excited about it!!!
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