I do get my fair share of looks and I get hit on here and there....its just not as blatant since I am a bit older and I think they feel they may get somewhere if they respect me better.
I have had some guys just plain come out and say why the hell is someone like you married (I'm not!) I've actually had that mentioned quite often just not as blatant as some will do. I've had it happen so often I blurted out to one guy that I wasn't! I thought what did I just say!! I don't get it, I wear one ring on my left hand and its not on my ring finger, I don't know if there saying something to find out for sure, or if they really don't know what finger a wedding ring is worn on.
At first I did find it a bit strange and uncomfortable. For one I didn't think I was any thing to look at, and also I was nowhere attracted to men. Things have now took a 180!! I am now very attracted to men, and at least feel I am as attractive as the average woman. It seems though the ones I would like to flirt with me don't and the ones that do,I don't want them too. I don't get too excited over many men....but today a guy came into work and I acted like such a teenager when trying to help him. He had all the qualities I look for in a man! Ugh! I'm getting sick now just thinking of him....I'm hoping he comes in soon....I'm not going to hold back next time.
Melanie, you are very attractive!
You may not see it, this can be common for attractive women that that are not full of their selves. Unfortunately sometimes woman like you or maybe even myself (though I'm not as attractive as you, just ordinary) can give the same type of impression because we don't believe what we are being told, and display an attitude that may come across as arrogant. If they only knew!! It's kind of like the old song by Jackson Browne (ya it ages me!!) called "Somebody's Baby" its about the pretty girl that never gets asked out because she is beautiful and gives the impression that she is taken....not in an arrogant way but in a shy way!
