What to do in a divorce???

[Misato]

Seems like good news.

I have dress down, tie the hair back time in my relationship. Even have places that she and I go that I'm not "out" at. Honestly, I find the effort relaxing, grounding even.

[stephaniec]

good luck

[mrs izzy]

All,

Well, we divided the belongings up, reached an agreement on money, insurance, property and everything and then a week later, she moved back in...  It was a long night.  In the end, all she asked is that when we dance as a couple, I will do so in boy mode.  I agreed to that. We met at a dance, she taught me to dance, and we competed together as a couple for several years before we got married.  My wife was a world class dancer and still is when one considers her age.  I can work with that. She seems to be doing well.  She doesn't call me by my old name but she does not call me Jen either.  She calls me hun but she uses the correct pronouns.

I just had an orchi and she has helped me though that....

I don't know if it will last.  But I'm going to ride the wave until it ends.

Hugs,

Jen

So you still have to lead. LOL. that ok.

I so hope you two can work it out in the long run. I know how you been feeling and it cuts deep to the soul, but i feel that her coming back means that love is the true foundation of your relationship.

Communication i know is the key and i feel that you two can handle all aspects of that.

Hugs Sis, and take care of your post op care.

Keep updated we all want your life with your spouse to be happy.

Isabell, I truly am happy.