Someone told me I was working too much and needed to "get laid" lol. He then proceeded to tell me all of the easiest ways I could accomplish that. Sadly, I have some additional hurdles that most men don't have.
He's sort of on point though, I'm really pushing myself to the limit. Only one person knows what my surgery is, everyone else knows something big is coming but they don't know the details. I'm kind of scared that they are going to put the pieces together.