Pesky penis

[Hopeful cutie]

I wish to begin cross dressing (I'm a man who wants to someday take hormones to become female). The one problem I know I'll have with feeling feminine is my penis. Maybe this is a dumb question but how can I most make my private area feel like a vagina or at least not like a man's.

[justpat]

  Wait till you start taking SPIRO willy and the poor boys will shrink as well as the morning system check will go away !

[alabamagirl]

@Pat

Hmm... I've never had much issue with erections after waking. Sometimes I have them, sometimes I don't. But they tend to go away pretty quickly after I get out of bed. Is that odd? I wonder if it means I have lower testosterone than most males.

Anyway, I'm interested in hearing what suggestions people have for this question, too. I tried using a gaf (sp?) once, a while ago, but it wasn't the most comfortable thing...

[Stephanie2]

I am on B.O. for four months now and I have noticed a great shrinkage of the balls. Also a bit with the "other guy," too. Luckily at my age (64) I don't mind not having male sexual urges. Have to work harder at it to get harder and semen almost non existing. I never wanted to get married and have kids, so I wouldn't mind losing the whole male package. The freedom of having a vagina appeals to me.

[JamesG]

@ Cutie:

You'll figure out the tuck, which in addition to hiding your boy bits away, causes the testicles to shrink from overheating, further reducing T production. You can tape, but its a pain in the ass (literally). Generally you can just wear tight briefs or (better yet) panties to hold things in place.  One reason/rational to wear them on a regular basis is to get used to them and lessen any sexual response from tucking and wearing lingerie.

[michelle gee]

  Wait till you start taking SPIRO willy and the poor boys will shrink as well as the morning system check will go away !

[Stephanie2]

The spiro I ordered is taking forever to get here. It was shipped a couple of weeks ago, but won't arrive until the 24th it said. When it does arrive, can't wait to get rid of more testosterone. The saw palmetto can only do so much, if it indeed works at all in that way. I want the penis to get as small as possible and the balls, too. And to think that at one time I wanted them larger, lol! Less is more. Surgery still seems fantastic to me, but as with most of us, way too expensive. Would take over a lifetime to save up that much at my age. But, yes, pesky penis.

[Jennygirl]

Thread title made me LOL...

Hopeful cutie- so far the best method I have found is the taping method of tucking. Done right I think it's probably the closest thing! Just make sure you shave first or... YOWCH!

Stephanie2- I rreaally hope you are ordering that spiro with a doctors prescription?

[Sandra M. Lopes]

Another option is to go for a silicone (external) prosthesis. Take a look at FemSkin's vagina products. I haven't tried them so I cannot recommend them (I used to have a very inferior product, a dozen years ago, which was worthless).

[Stephanie2]

Stephanie2- I rreaally hope you are ordering that spiro with a doctors prescription?
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Actually, everything you take, whether it be the bovine ovary, hrt, herbal, as well as the spiro should be under a doctor's prescription. Some can't, for different reasons, be under the doctor's care and some of us are up in age, which means that we take more chances than the younger crowd. Luckily I researched these things and know the good and bad things with the spiro. I know about the low blood pressure part of the spiro, too. (Also called the "water pill" for good reason.)

[janetcgtv]

You don't need to take spiro if you get your testicles removed. It is also 1 less pill you would have to take which can ruin the liver(I'm not sure about this). If you do go to a medical doctor for this procedure, else you can possibly lose your life if you have a stranger do it or yourself.

This is also a preclude for SRS in the future. You won't need to take a pill to get rid of the testosterone. as others have to.

[Dani Davis]

Tucking while wearing snug panties works great for me without taping and often times I'll wear a feminine napkin too which helps the tuck.

[Stephanie2]

Or even a tight rubber band around the balls until they turn black, then you will HAVE to get them removed. (Or they fall off!)

[Dani Davis]

Or even a tight rubber band around the balls until they turn black, then you will HAVE to get them removed. (Or they fall off!)

Yikes!   

[sophiaInside]

Ive actually found a way to make your own gaff with nothing but the waste band from a pair of rights and a tube sock and it works really well for me, let me know if you want me to explain it more

[VeronicaLynn]

You don't need to take spiro if you get your testicles removed.

A less drastic way is to wear multiple layers of panties. I discovered this because I got a set of mesh panties that were unwearable unless over another pair, and you know what, the more pairs the better, the downside risk, of course is visible panty lines, but that is much better than something else being visible.

[Stephanie2]

Just taking a chance on this, since the topic is probably dead, but a note to Jennygirl. I never received the spiro, but you may be happy to know that I have a doctor's prescription for finasteride, which I hear does about the same thing to testosterone.

[Lex286]

Wow, it was a simple question and such drastic and dangerous responses by some. Please advise of the healthy solutions. Please seek a therapist and don't risk your health, believe me I have wanted as well but I am going with the therapist rout and not risking my health. Please girls I know it's hard and everyone has their own situation but we all have someone who loves us and wants us to be around..........if this is really what you want, please try to do it safely.

Sincerely.......

[Dani Davis]

Guessing you saw the rubber band method?  grin... 

Wow, it was a simple question and such drastic and dangerous responses by some. Please advise of the healthy solutions. Please seek a therapist and don't risk your health, believe me I have wanted as well but I am going with the therapist rout and not risking my health. Please girls I know it's hard and everyone has their own situation but we all have someone who loves us and wants us to be around..........if this is really what you want, please try to do it safely.

Sincerely.......